2006-12-29 11:53:19 · 17 answers · asked by ramagemaria2005 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I think the real question you should ask yourself is how much of your life are you willing to spend waiting on someone to come around and feel how you feel. Life flies by fast enough without wasting any more time on him- live for you and what makes you happiest.
2006-12-29 11:59:22 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends on what ur waiting for and what type of person this guy is. If he ain't waiting and u both are young people then have ur fun. If he comes back then you guys get married. But i wouldn't tell anyone to wait if that man ain't put no ring on my finger! I would have my fun so I wouldn't have a change of heart during the wedding ceremony. I ain't saying have sex with everyone but have fun, cause he is trust me. Men won't to have their cake and eat it too. He wont' to hold the good girl and have his fun and do whatever he big enough to do, then come back to you when he done. Don't be that nieve. Have ur fun to while he is having his! Been there done that. be careful 2 cause i cant tell u not 2 go back it depends on the situation and on what type of guy he is....but a ring mite bring me back 2 a man nothin else could.
2006-12-29 20:06:00 · answer #2 · answered by Janice 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know this nice little place in Chicago. Very romantic. Have you ever eaten by candlelight? I can just imagine looking into your eyes while the shadows dance on the walls. If your man is not willing to take you out and treat you like you should be treated, forget him. When you finally decide to stop waiting for the mope feel free to hit me up. I will send a car to get you.
2006-12-29 19:57:40 · answer #3 · answered by Maranzano 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends. Why have you been separated? If he is incarcerated, then no, you need to move on and find someone you can trust.
If he is in the military, then yes, I would wait on him.
If he's going to school in another city or state then I would think you both should date other people until he returns.
But again, it depends on why he asked you to wait and how old you are.
2006-12-29 19:56:23 · answer #4 · answered by Blue 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The question is do you want to wait?
(if not MOVE ON)
In 1 year what was he doing?
Life is short and time isn't stopping. Live life.
2006-12-29 20:01:58 · answer #5 · answered by GOD IS LOVE 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No way! Don't even be with a guy who wants you to wait THAT long. He sounds too ambivalent. When you know what you want, you know what you want. He doesn't, so he is a fool. A woman has no time to be dating fools, especially ones that want them to wait that long.
2006-12-29 20:03:14 · answer #6 · answered by doomonyou! 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Need more info, please. You say you've been "separated" for a year, what does that mean, did you break up, is he away at school, in the military, what? What are you supposed to be waiting for, and for how much longer?
2006-12-29 20:06:05 · answer #7 · answered by letsgetagripalready 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
do not talk to himm for 7days at all only hey.through these 7days you will change your life into acalmer and better one .care for things that are more serious like science or helping your nearby family and relivants you know .care for life hoe does it work .correct it and make it more healthy so that what keeps in your brain is work not him.Then if you see him more interested to you on this way, you got to deal withhim in your calm way.but if he seemed to not care leave him because you deserve better and contact me at man_mom_mon@yahoo.com to tell you more
2006-12-29 20:06:00 · answer #8 · answered by man m 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No Way! get on with your life. Wait ??? while he does what??/
Now, If he is in the arm forces that another story. Other wise No Way. NO!!
2006-12-29 19:58:51 · answer #9 · answered by Sugar 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he's leaving u for something important(the army or something) then date him. If he's moving-move on. If you've been broken up-wha't to wait for???
2006-12-29 19:58:40 · answer #10 · answered by Sexy S. 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋