ok my boyfriend called my best friend a fat whore and i got pissed off and i broke up with him i still love him but i dont know what to do I tried calling him but he didnt answer. I need help cuz i wanna do back out with him and that wasnt the first time he called her that and he told me that he would never do that again but he did.Now my friend feels bad cuz she thinks that me and him are over because of her. HELP
2006-12-29 11:48:46 · 20 answers · asked by Me 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Move on. Someone with a mouth like that is not a "keeper." In time you will find someone who deserves you.
2006-12-29 11:50:18 · answer #1 · answered by Sir J 7 · 3⤊ 1⤋
Okay, lets take this one step at a time, shall we?? We'll start with the friend problem. Okay, you NEED to convince her it wasn't her fault...tell her things like, "You never told him to call you that...it wasn't your fault." Just make sure she knows it wasn't her. THEN, lets address the boy. He respects you so he should respect ypur friends as well...what did she ever do to him?? Nothing. So, since he won't answer his phone, you are going to have to do this in person. Walk up and say, "Look, we need to talk. I made a mistake, I love you, and I don't want us to be over. However, my friend means the world to me, and I can't stand you hurting her...it hurts me too. If we are ever going to work out, I need you two to not hate each other. Could we try again, with you respecting my friends this time??" Then, let him answer...if he still refuses to treat your friend right, I say MOVE ON. Is he really worth your time?? Think about that. Good luck hon, and let me know how it all goes.
2006-12-29 11:57:58 · answer #2 · answered by R*A*N*D*O*M* 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Listen honey..the fact that he is not coming back simply means you gave him the way out he was looking for. If you take someone back that speaks that way about your friend he is not going to respect you!! Move on...you and your best friend will meet new guyz!!
He didn't break your heart just the light has been shined on his nature and it hurts to think you luved someone like that...
2006-12-29 11:55:00 · answer #3 · answered by Mee-OW =^..^= 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well it was nice you were loyal to your friend. He really should not call your friend names. Perhaps you can meet someone better than him and tell your friend it is not her fault. Just give up on him you do not want to chase him after you broke up with him. In the future be careful who you brake up with unless you mean it. It is hard to repair it.
2006-12-29 11:54:35 · answer #4 · answered by adobeprincess 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry to hearken to which you (Sandy) had your heart broken. Sucks while it occurs even inspite of the shown fact that it somewhat is a factor of existence i assume. i think of i could extremely have my heart broken via the guy i admire via them leaving me, extremely then staying with them perpetually and being depressing. advantageous Judith, and ladies are like fridges, each and every person shoves their meat in there. Yeah generalizations suck do not they. apparently you have had your heart broken too many cases.
2016-10-19 04:44:54 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she is your best friend you dont neeed a man like that he felt he needed to call your friend a fat hore than girl stop calling him move if he didnt stop he didnt care and you werent what he was looking for or the people you hang out with didnt appeal to him
2006-12-29 11:55:54 · answer #6 · answered by glitterbabeprincess 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are probably making you freind feel bad by telling her you want to get back with him. Plus why would you love someone that called your friend that , he might talk to you that way
2006-12-29 11:53:52 · answer #7 · answered by Ask&learn 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It looks like you have to decide who's more important. Go to his house and let him know how you feel in person. Bring a Teddy Bear too.
2006-12-29 11:51:48 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Now he disgustingly treats your best friend, then it's going to be you who he will treat the same.
Think about that before calling him again.
2006-12-29 12:00:00 · answer #9 · answered by Bella 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
leave a message, telling him that you still like him and want to be with him, but you were very hurt because he broke his promise, and to call you if he still has feelings for you too.
2006-12-29 11:50:47 · answer #10 · answered by High On Life 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋