Does she like me?

Question

Well ive been talking to this girl for about 3 moths now, i call her alot and we talk on the phone at least 3 hours every time and we really get into big subjects and its alot of fun... i didnt really start to like her untill now and its been driving me crazy because i dont want to ask her out because she always tells me about these guys that act like they are her friend then start to get all pervy on her.... and i dont want that to happen because i truely am not like that and i really want to go out with her. We hang out every now and then but i just dont know what to do to make her know that im not just trying to nail her for sex haha... any help would be really nice.. i know you cant learn love but advice helps :D

Thanks for the quick response guys! I was thinking of asking her to meet up with me so we could talk and maybe tell her how i really feel and its just not a sex with that i really care for her?

Ok forgot to add this, probably around the second month since we started talking she had a boyfriend for about 1 week but broke up with him since she was treating her badly.

whoops haha i ment he was treating her badly* sorry about that :(

Answer 1

you should tell her how you really feel and that its not about sex or whatever. tell her you really like her and want to be with her. whatever your feeling you should tell her. & if she gets the wrong idea then prove her wrong.

Answer 2

"she always tells me about these guys that act like they are her friend then start to get all pervy on her....
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Ok there is a very important detail you left out. Which is the turning point for your answer.
Did she mention that she hates when this happens?
Did she mention or do you know that she did indeed end up getting with these guys?

If you know she does infact fall for these guys....you have a very clear hint so as to what attracts her. The fact that she speaks negatively about it does not change the fact that she does in fact feel an emotional attraction for these guys.

On the other hand if she is only speaking nagatively about them, and has not dated those types, or fallen for them ect. Then she is probably giving you a hint that you are definately in the friend zone, she suspects you like her, to her you are nothing more than a "nice guy", like one of her female friends and doesn't want you to get any ideas.

If you put some more info to this effect i might be able to help you more....but either one of these are just about equally possible.

Answer 3

Just ask her out or you'll go nuts!!! 3 months is a long time especially if you've been talking for hours on the phone. If you have been real with her, then she'll know you by now.

Be honest in expressing your feelings, I wouldn't even mention sex at all because that would just put her off (it sounds bad when a guy says "It's not just about the sex..." because alarm bells start ringing & the girl wonders why he even mentioned sex if it didn't factor in to the being asked out bit).

Anyway, all the best! At least you'll know one way or the other once you've taken the step of asking her out.

Answer 4

You should do something really sweet for her like make her brownies and give her some flowers, and when she says "thanks" you should say something like "well, i don't know, i really like you, and its kind of hard to do this, actually its REALLY hard to do this, to tell you this i mean, because I know how guys have treated you before, and I don't want you to think that I'm just like every other guy who just wants you for sex, because I actually care about you, and you actually mean something to me, and i guess if you don't want to hear that, and you 'just want to be friends' that's fine, because I would rather be 'just friends' with you, than have you out of my life completely, but quite frankly, i think you'd be making a huge mistake." and then just walk away. she'll come running after you.

Answer 5

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Answer 6

She might have said that because she dosn't want to be your gf. Or she might of just said it. Talk to her about it. Tell her you didn't know wrether to ask her out or not because of what she said. And tell her that your not like those other people, and you really to like her and want to go out. I'm sure she'll say yes, but be carefull. - Tjf

Answer 7

my advice would be to ask her out. It sounds like she likes you. And if she doesn't like guys that get pervy, then don't get pervy! If she says no when you ask her out just be like, okay thats cool and jeep going on normally.

Answer 8

sounds kinda like the movie just friends.
wow i dont know sounds difficult.
some people just kind of fall into eachother.
but i would uh kind of drop hints.
maybe ask her what she thinks of you.
but dont mention anything about sex.
never mention anything about sex.
if you do get together,never even try to have sex with her
and dont move too fast.
dont touch her like that without her telling you too.

Answer 9

3 months sounds like a good long while, so i say give it a try to ask her. if you've been keeping it real with her for that long i'm sure it'll be fine. just believe in yourself.

Answer 10

I would say just ask her if she wants to go out and tell her that you arent like those other guys.