I always get my period around the same time and its not here yet! My boyfriend doesn't want any kids at all. He isn't ready for a commitment. He loves me but is not in love with me. He will probably break up with me because he will think that I did this on purpose to get him to move in since I have been bugging him lately. And we work together so everyones going to know. Do I move away, have an abortion? Help!
2006-12-29 11:38:50 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
All I can say is do NOT have an abortion. You will have more grief after that than you could imagine. And you do not know what it will do internally for your potential later to have children.
If you do not want the child...let someone who cannot have children raise him/her. You'll give that child a loving home and may even some day come to know that child.
2006-12-29 11:44:38 · answer #1 · answered by Kalena 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he didint want to have children then he should have made sure both him and you were protected well and or he shouldnt have sex. If he is the type to think you are manipulative why are you with him.. I have yet too read what YOU want!
As far as the abortion, make sure its not something you won't regret in the long run, you can always give the child up for adoption but having an abortion so your man wont be mad is truly not a good reason to have one ..
Your period can just be late cause you are stressed out
2006-12-29 19:44:57 · answer #2 · answered by Amazing_clarity 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask this question when you actually know you are pregnant. Whatever you do, don't inform him of the situation until you are 100% percent positive. It's the cruelest thing you can do to a man. When you do find out - if you are pregnant - have an abortion.
2006-12-29 19:56:00 · answer #3 · answered by #1 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How old are you???? You should see if you are actually pregnant or not before telling everyone! This is a little personal to be putting on here dont you think?
2006-12-29 19:42:58 · answer #4 · answered by Chelsea 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stock up on formula and diapers.
2006-12-29 19:41:13 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋