I love my girlfriend and I want everything to go good for us. The thing that bothers me the most is that we don't talk alot. When i talk to her, I'm afarid to say stuff thinking that it will make her think Im crazy or it might get on her nerves. Me and her are not the talkative type, but I want us to be. It bothers me that our phone converstation are usally 5-10 minutes. As a guy, what can I say that will really start up a conversation between me and her and make me feel better?
2006-12-29 11:36:01 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Don't think about messing up. She like's you, right? So she'll still like you, even if you say something stupid. Just ask her how she's doing and go off from there. Be yourself. And talk about her. People like talking about themselves, it makes them feel important. Best of luck - Tjf
2006-12-29 11:39:42 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask her about herself. find out new things about her. she'll like the fact that you're interested in her, and you'll learn more about her, leading to a better understanding for each other, being able to be more honest and up front with each other, and a better conversation. it's what my bf and I do when we don't have anything to talk about, which then leads up to at least an hour long talk on the phone!
Good Luck!!!
2006-12-29 11:50:17 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Aw sweetie, it doesn't sound odd to me! Two people can't talk all the time, you'd end up getting sick of each other really fast. Just ask her general things about her day, and it'll fall into free flowing conversation from there. If you get too uptight about it, you'll end up clamming up and being too nervous to speak at all! And by the way, it obviously doesn't bother her too much or she wouldn't be dating you!!
2006-12-29 11:40:33 · answer #3 · answered by Megafunk 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
a relationship can not survive with out converstaion and without being open with eachother, and i know that by experience. just start with asking her how her day was, what she did. try and make small talk for a while. or try playing a 'question' game. just ask her random questions, get to know her more and itll become eaiser to have comversations. ask her questions like 'do you prefer burger king or mcdonalds' 'sprite or 7up' try and spark conversations like that. and dont be scared to say whats on your mind, she wont think youre weird or crazy. and just remember that she already likes you for who you are, so theres not really much you can say to change that. good luck.
2006-12-29 11:42:49 · answer #4 · answered by So in love. 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you shouldnt be afraid of what she'll think when you say things. cause then your just not being yourself. be yourself and say whatever you want and talk about whatever you want. be random, theres so many things you can talk about. you know what they are , your just afraid to say it because of what your girlfriend might think. even though your not the talkative type, once you star, you'll keep going.
2006-12-29 11:39:45 · answer #5 · answered by j yanks 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask her how her day was, what she did, etc.
you can ask her things about herself like her likes and dislikes.
try to stay away from yes or no questions.
just ask her a lot about herself.
2006-12-29 11:38:44 · answer #6 · answered by xcelticsbabee34x 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋