i was with my boyfriend for 3 yrs our relationship had problems so ask my friend wht 2 do she said to go on a break n meet new ppl to hang out with it made everything worse becasue i only really talked to guys. he got jealous and broke up with me. we got back together later but i still talkd to my guy friends. we broke up a few more times 4 the same reason then people started telling him i was cheating and we broke up. i got him to talk to me again but i had to move to houston he lives in san antonio. everything was fine we were actually getting somewhere and then once i get to houston i lost signal on n off. so if he texted me i wouldnt get it till 4 hours later and i miss all his calls. he said he didnt want to get hurt so he stopped talking to me. about 2 months later we started talking again and he said if he can trust we can get bak together. i need to get his trust back i need him to know im not going to leave him. it was my fault 4 listenin everything else was a misunderstandin
2006-12-29 11:30:27 · 5 answers · asked by angelica 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
okay, well it sounds to me that you didnt do anything to lose his trust in the first place, so you shouldnt have anyhitng to be sorry for unless you did cheat on him. and it sounds to me that theres obviously something between you two if you both keep getting back together. if you two do get back together, then let him know that you want to have guy friends, and to make him feel less insecure about that, invite him out with you and some of your guy friends [and girl friends] but pay more attention to him. hold his hand and kiss him and everything. tell him that he shouldnt have no reason to not trust you, and if you two get back together he'll see that he can trust you. good luck.
2006-12-29 11:37:35 · answer #1 · answered by So in love. 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it sounds like you both need to just move on. if you have to keep proving yourself to him you will eventually resent it and him. if he is so insecure and mistrusting you wont be able to reassure him enough. cool it for a while. if its meant to be it will work out later.
2006-12-29 19:36:42 · answer #2 · answered by katlady 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop all this talking and just F the guy
2006-12-29 19:32:48 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
you dont need help you already have your answer dont listen to what others tell you .. the only way to show him he can trust you is by your actions..
2006-12-29 19:35:59 · answer #4 · answered by Amazing_clarity 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
uh huh
2006-12-29 19:37:22 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋