1) never celebrates anything....got you nothing for your birthday not even a love note/card....doesn't do anything for your anniversary. gives you a LAME eCard for valentines day instead of a fun little inside joke handwritten card.....
2) calls you by an ex-girlfriend's name [that he had been broken up with for 3 years! already]
3) still goes out to lunch with his ex-girlfriend
4) talks to his ex-girlfriend on the phone iN FRONT of YOU
5) you buy him a Wii as an early christmas present the 1st week of december...camped out and everything for it.....and he doesn't even have the decency to wish you a MERRy CHRisTMAS on christmas day [and you guys weren't planning on seeing each other for christmas]
6) been dating a YEAR and a half and still haven't met ANY of his family....not even a brother...nothing
7) emails you how he's worried about your slight weight gain...i'm 137lbs! sorry i'm not in the gym everyday jeeeZ!
8) is judgemental,ungrateful,and unappreciative!
2006-12-29 11:11:35 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I'm not the other girl....we've lived together for the past year and couple months....i suppose it was too fast...
he's great in bed though..and really hot....that's was the only thing keepin me there
i tried to break up with him twice before but then he gets all nice for a while...then turns into a jerk again...[i'm easily flattered]....that why this time i had to break up with him over the phone as awful as that sounds.
THanks for all the advice!!!!
baH
2006-12-29 11:23:35 · update #1
You know you're the "other" girl and not the girlfriend, right?
2006-12-29 11:18:21 · answer #1 · answered by sorcergeek 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Yes. Clearly he's either hiding something or he sees you as his ho babe. You do all for him and he doesn't give a rip about you.
But... your numbers 1, 3, & 4 are not problems in and of themselves. Sheesh, an ecard is better than no card. And
having lunch with an ex-girlfriend isn't that big a deal. Talking to her in front of you isn't a big deal either. (Behind your back would be an issue.)
But the other items are deal breakers. Why do you even have to ask someone else's opinion? Clearly you think he's a dog so you might as well give it up.I can't believe that you bother with him. Dump him and get someone that you can respect and will respect you.
2006-12-29 11:21:38 · answer #2 · answered by katme 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah! I hope this 'signs' have not started from the beginning of your relationship, cause I would never put up with crap like that. You don't need this person in your life. You may feel that 'you love him' and 'you still have feelings', but accept them and let those feelings go and get rid of this guy. Don't waste your time and energy on someone who is not spending their time or energy on you. If your looking for a straight point answer...DUMP HIM!!
2006-12-29 11:17:13 · answer #3 · answered by rexy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YES
if a guy wont evan wish u a merry christmas and hangs out with his ex way too much then ya break up with him is my advuce for u.
2006-12-29 11:16:19 · answer #4 · answered by lucky_in_love 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You obviously like the guy for some unearthly reason!But if thats the case then you should make him listen to you and tell him all these things and if he doesnt have a plausible explanation then i guess you should show some self- respect and say ADIOS to the guy.
2006-12-29 11:19:19 · answer #5 · answered by ytee 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
ok, so it seems as if you can really answer your own question.. here is what u do. The same way you just listed about 10 reasons why you should break up with him.. develop a similar list of reasons not to break up with him and if it is not as long as the 1st list...... whoa la
your answer!!!!
2006-12-29 11:28:16 · answer #6 · answered by thatsmystory&imstickin2it 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
So you mean to tell me all of that's happened and you still stuck by. Loser with a capital 'L'. You're probably just a booty call. Is reality finally sinking in?
2006-12-29 11:14:21 · answer #7 · answered by Chris from West LA 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
To tell the truth, I'm trying to figure out why you started dating him in the first place. Yes, you should dump him!
2006-12-29 11:21:09 · answer #8 · answered by M.A.X. 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you already know you want to break up with him. I would have dumped him along time ago and took back that Wii!!
2006-12-29 11:15:52 · answer #9 · answered by You Don't Know Me! 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
If you are still with him then it's your fault, sorry. If you let people treat you badly and hang around for more abuse and humiliation what do you expect? A proposal?
2006-12-29 11:14:59 · answer #10 · answered by artist-oranit.com. 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Um . . . yes. Good for you for finally getting rid of him. I don't know why you'd even start with a guy like that.
2006-12-29 11:27:59 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋