How do you find a flaw in someone who is almost perfect?

Question

I have to know how to find a bad quality in someone who seems perfect. (goodlooking,smart,funny, no drugs, or drinking etc.)
How do you pick them apart or find that flaw or bad habit they may have?

Answer 1

no one is perfect, and the longer you know someone, the more you will see this. maybe your friend has trouble dealing with anger, or has bad relationships with their family - or any number of things.

but that said, because everyone has flaws, they just add to the character of the person, and are not always bad per se.

Answer 2

Hah!.... Christians or non-christians, anyone who thinks more of themselves than they ought only needs to be faced with the truth. When I practiced martial arts some, I didn't want to feel like a "bad-a__," so to help myself be more humble, I'd purposely seek to find those who were much better. Believe me, there are those who can dwarf us, no matter how good we are tempted to think we are. A good dose of reality often begets humility, if you look in the right places. However, if you are standing in the shadows, yourself, it can be hard to see the light that will show up the other person's imperfections. Don't worry about them, for..."pride goes before the fall"..., so just let things go and you'll have a clear conscience when, in time, that person is humbled. Who knows, maybe later they'll thank you for being a friend when they were a conceited jerk or something and others showed animosity towards them because of it. -- Peace.

Answer 3

I gather that you do not trust this guy although he is almost perfect. That is what I call fussy. No matter how good someone is or appears to be, you can find fault in them. Just accept the fact that none of us are perfect and try to find all that is good. At the same time, use your wisdom and do not become a sucker to a false gentleman.

Answer 4

Everyone has a flaw. If we didn't we would be God, and only he/she is perfect. don't try so hard to find flaws in what seems perfect to you. Continue to induldge and love what you find perfect in them, and go with it. Little things will come in time that you may not agree with, but you deal with them because you keep thinking about what made that person, "perfect" in your eyes, and eventually you'll get past it.

Answer 5

you will soon find them and there will be 2 or more flaws after you are past the honeymoon phrase. You are just in love that why you don't see the flaws.Time will make those flaws crawl out.

Answer 6

That comes with time. Everyone presents themselves in the best light until they feel more comfortable with someone. Ask to meet his friends and family if you've known him for a couple months. Keep in mind no one is perfect and things will eventually surface.

Answer 7

dont look for the bad in people, just look for the good. espically if youre falling for this person, maybe what you find to be perfect isnt perfect to someone else. and as long as in your eyes hes perfect, then i dont see why youre looking for a flaw in him.

Answer 8

Well, if your trying to get those level 10 girls my strategy is called negative hits. You say something like, "Hey your lashes look nice, are they real? " or "You hair is beautiful, but you shouldn't have dyed it so and so colour" Eventually they will see hey this guy has the balls to talk to me, and you will get her out of her bubble and then you can make your move.

If you are talking about a guy, I am a parallel strategy of negative hits could work.

Answer 9

Why are you looking for a flaw? Are you trying to ruin a good thing?

Answer 10

Live with them.

I am sure that this same frustration has cursed many of my women.

Let me ask you, why would you want to pick someone apart young lady?