my boyfriend iz very very very sexually active....even if were hugging he gets an hard on...i cant keep up with all the sex....he says he cant help the feeling to want it...im worried that if i dont deliver he'll find relief else where...what shud i do?
2006-12-29 10:52:05 · 17 answers · asked by !when*the*smoke*clears! 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Introduce him to his right hand.
2006-12-29 10:56:06 · answer #1 · answered by lulu 6 · 2⤊ 1⤋
While he's still trying to bed you - for the short to medium term he won't seek relief elsewhere - so stand your ground. Chances are he's had few sexual partners. Also chances are he'll eventually get fed up of the chase and move on. If he does - then you haven't lost anything. If he sticks around though - then chances are he'll appreciate you even more and it will imprint on his mind - this should lead to a long term relationship.
Trust me - I'm the same as he is!
2006-12-29 11:00:18 · answer #2 · answered by ? 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you no what i ust to feel the same about my boyfriend but it got to the point that i was exhausted so i explained to him that its not fair and that it was starting to become more of a chore then something special between to people he went of in a mood the usuall kinda thing that men do when they dont get there way but he calmed down and relised that he cant have what he wants all the time what im trying to say is if he loves you he will give you the space good luck
2007-01-06 05:54:13 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
mine is exactly the same so i tell him if he needs it that much to have a W**k and that does the trick for him cuz he loves me and he says i make him really randy. all we have to do is hug (like you) and he is hard so i tell him that he has the rest of his life to have sex but that isnt what the relationship is about. ask him to do something for you and promise it to him once every 2 days or something. that is what i do and that means i get it and so does he but at the end of the day i get my way cuz we dont have it all the time when he wants but he does get it. he he he
2006-12-29 11:59:00 · answer #4 · answered by fiona127740 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don think that if you dont give it to him he'll go elsewhere. if her really loved you the only releif hed be getting would be from his hand.
Mine fella was the same and I thought Id have to have sex when he wanted it, but when i found out he loved me I knew he wouldnt cheat but to go into the bathroom once or twice a day
2007-01-04 00:43:46 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
um well,you shouldnt try to keep up because you feel presured.never ever do anything because someone else whants you to, only do it because you want to.
and if he does find relief elsewhere then as long as its with his own hand and not with someone else then you're fine.
p.s although i do think they give nymphomaniabccs councelling for free on the nhs
2007-01-06 05:49:31 · answer #6 · answered by best_ever_lay 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get married and in a few months time he'll slow down
2007-01-05 21:44:57 · answer #7 · answered by BARROWMAN 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i have exactly the same problem with my boyfriend and you have to talk to him, i found that once the pressure was taken off me i felt more inclined, see if he is willing to back if a little bit, youll feel more sexy if you feel a little bit more in control. sex isnt everything, but see if you can reach a compromise.
2006-12-29 11:22:48 · answer #8 · answered by cookie 85 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do as much as you can but if you are bored simply stop, be patient, there will be time he slow down and you will be then more active.
2007-01-06 10:47:47 · answer #9 · answered by Magdzior 8 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I HAD one like that. No self control. I would find him masturbating in bed next to me and everything. I took firm control of my former boyfriend's sexual activity - this is what I suggest you do as well. if he has no self control you will have to impose some.
i find that chanting is very effective - ask him to do this.
2006-12-29 11:04:23 · answer #10 · answered by Kitty 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
when he tries it on again - smack him hard on the d**k and say - DOWN BOY!!!! he wont be in a hurry for sex after that!!!! if that fails then build him a kennel and tell him he is in the dog house until he can contol himself!!!!
2006-12-29 10:56:27 · answer #11 · answered by little_hen_uk 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋