My first love(when I was 13) recently wrote me to tell me he still loves me. We're more of a plutonic love. We met on Vacation, I'm in Cali & he's in Texas. We only saw eachother then & kept in touch for a few years through email, phone & mail. About 3 years ago he got his gf pregnant & got married. I was bummed when I found out, even though we were nothing. He's now divorced & tells me he's never forgotten me. So, what does he want me to do? We live so far & I still care for him but don't think I love him. What do I tell him?
2006-12-29 10:43:02 · 2 answers · asked by Mishee 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
you shouldnt crush his feelings but you should encourage him to go back to his wife and kid who need him and remind him the reason he got married and that it wasnt you. or if you want to get back together you should tell him your willing to give it another shot but you can not take the time and money to go to texas like egg him on to come to see you . and see were it goes from there good luck
2006-12-29 10:47:01 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
We never forget our first Love. Sometimes we don't even realize it was Love until many years later.l did the samething to my first Love after moving to California from the east coast for 2 years l wrote a letter confessing my Love for her.But she had a boyfriend who read the letter and beat her up.she didn't write back until another 2 years later l wrote her again we got together for a while it was a beautiful moment but it didn't last long.l still Love her today and l plan on writing her again on Valentinesday, because l will never forget my first and only Love.
2006-12-29 11:00:24 · answer #2 · answered by catsclaw 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋