My finace lives in another country, my sis will be out partying w/her fiance and my parents will be sleeping. I have no one who I WANT to share new years eve with (except my fiance but that's not possible). No party to go to. Friends....well lets just say I am a loner by choice :). Even if I had friends and parties to go to I probably wouldn't go. But this year I feel sad about spending new years alone. I guess its b/c b4 this year me and my sis would always be together and also things were good b/w me and my parents - we actually talked to eachother while living under 1 roof. I used to chat with my fiance around midnight. This time its nothing. My fiance has ppl over @ his house so have to look after them. We'll talk but for 30 mins...no 3 hours long chats :( Can anyone else relate to how I feel? Happy New Year btw :)
2006-12-29 10:41:07 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
hey,
all my family lives overseas its just me and my 4 yr old son... most my friends are going out so im probablyjust styaing home alone..... i probably take it as it come see what on tv if i get tire i go to bed early...
it will b even less fun if no 1 is going to call me .......
BUt it will be a start of a new yr with lots of great promisses in 2007
HAPPY NEW YR
2006-12-30 02:58:18 · answer #1 · answered by yvette777 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I can relate! I am going thru a divorce after 21 years of marriage. I have a 19 year old daughter who is smart enough to spend new years eve with friends, but now i am totally alone on new years eve for the first time in my life! Pretty sad about it, but keep telling myself that it is for the best. I wanted the divorce because husband was very controlling, first asked for divorce 13 years ago but he threatened suiside so I stayed. He was diagnosed as manic depressive but refused to take medicine, i stayed for many more years but finally could not live with the roller coaster that life with him was and filed for divorce on Dec. 12, 2006. I am 43 years old and this is the first New Years that I have ever spent alone. Midnight hit and all of a sudden for the first time I started crying about the whole thing, realized that I could be spending a whole lot of years by myself. Hope 2007 is a whole lot better than 2006.
2006-12-31 17:29:25 · answer #2 · answered by debbie1126p 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh well, I'm alone for the new year. I just moved here and know few. So all you single women 21 and over who live in NE. Ohio send me a note we can all party together. Yep, a big group of people who have never met out for a party together. What a deal. In fact all you people who have no plans in NE Ohio lets pic a place and all converge. We'll call it the" Who The Hell Are You, But Lets Talk" Party. We can suck face at midnight and all go home feeling a little better about ourselves.
2006-12-29 10:58:46 · answer #3 · answered by Wildturkey87 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I can so relate. I'm usually back home with my family and preparing shrimp wit hmy dad since he and I are the only ones that like it. My family is near st.Louis and I'm in Chicago. I always wanted to celebrate New Year's in Chicago, but I didn't expect my friends to not be available, know about parties (yet not know the address), and rather work than being alone. It only made me realize that my expectations for New Years get's lower with each passing year. At the moment, I'm glad that I'm not the only one alone on new year's eve. I think I'm just going to go out and find something to do. Happy New Year's to Everyone. 2007!!!!!!!!
2006-12-31 16:14:43 · answer #4 · answered by Kat H 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, I can relate. 2006 was a lousy year for me, I'm glad to see it go. Among other things, my fiance died in November and I'm still trying to deal with that, & I know New Year's Eve will be tough. I know there are alot of other people who will feel alone, too, I'm trying to treat it like just another day, wait for the holidays to finally come to a close, and hope for a better new year.
2006-12-30 06:01:23 · answer #5 · answered by harlowtoo 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you don't have to be alone to feel alone...
Happy New year, hope your 2007 is cheerful, healthy and that you shall be surrounded by people who loves you and care for you (hopfully not all the time - trust me, it's painful) :)
take care and keep warm (or cool, depending on where you are in the world)
2007-01-01 02:11:11 · answer #6 · answered by Red Rabbit 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm a loner by choice too :) And it doens't bother me. Well, initially I had plans with my best friend, but she got sick and I decided to stay home watching a good movie.
Happy New Years to you!!!!
2006-12-31 12:17:36 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
it is gonna be my first 365 days spending it on my own. I stay in nyc and understanding that circumstances sq. expects a million human beings to celebrate because of the fact the ball drops, it is especially unhappy to renowned i visit be on my own. yet, i think of it is the perfect thank you to start the 365 days. useful, I wont be partying, yet I see it as being back to sq. one. you would be spending a clean commencing up with the guy you believe the main: your self
2016-11-24 23:47:18 · answer #8 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you still feel much better than me because i am totally alone and have no lover at all.
It is hard i understand but try to enjoy your time with your close friends or relatives.
Happy New year
2006-12-29 10:47:13 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
My girlfriend lives in Mo but I live in Ohio so yeah I sort of know how you feel
2006-12-29 10:44:25 · answer #10 · answered by osunumberonefan 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋