I'm a guy 18yrs old i passed highschool 2 years ago and this problem nearly ruins my life.
2006-12-29 10:41:06 · 12 answers · asked by vampirezone 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Puppy, it's not very hard. Girls are people to. Find a way of getting your confidence level up. Skydive, rock climb, piss off pit bulls. You have to learn to be comfortable with yourself before you can be comfortable with a girl.
2006-12-29 10:59:00 · answer #1 · answered by no name brand canned beans 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am not going to tell you to be yourself because it is obvious that you are being yourself and you can't stop being shy. Now try to pretend as if the girl you want to talk to is at first just a friend and that you are not really interested in her, pretend and you will be able to talk to her after about five minutes it will get easier for you to know that if you don't go into the equation as having an interest other then just being friends it will be better for you.
2006-12-29 18:47:21 · answer #2 · answered by LittleDaisy. 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Being shy is when you focus on yourself. You are thinking what people think about you etc. The best way to get past that is to focus on the girl your attracted to. Women love to be the focus of your attention and if your too busy thinking about yourself and how people see you then she is getting gyped. One thing you need to understand is everyone messes up and makes a fool of themselves from time to time so dont worry about that. People generally can get past that if you dont dwell on it. Just focus on the girl. Find out what she likes, who she is, how she responds. Think only of her and everything will fall into place.
2006-12-29 18:45:39 · answer #3 · answered by Dovahkiin 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
All I have to say is that you should watch the show "Beauty and the Geek" on MTV. Not saying that you are a geek or something but it deals with their confidence. That should help you a lot. Also just remember that some girls are just as scared talking to you, as you are talking to them.
2006-12-29 18:47:33 · answer #4 · answered by Tomboyalc123 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't have to be shy.. Just bring a subject up and talk any subject.. Just be friendly and simile that helps.. believe me..
I am Glad u fished high school..
Good luck
happy new year.
2006-12-29 18:45:28 · answer #5 · answered by **2005** 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what do you want to know?
If it's just that you want to talk to a girl, than just do it. Say something nice, like "hey i like your shoes." Girl's are just as nervous to talk to guys. Also, a lot of girls really like the shy quiet type.
2006-12-29 18:45:07 · answer #6 · answered by karina 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ummm.... like doesnt almsot every1 have that issue? I know I do!!! Just get over it try giving people hints slowly at a time u'know?
2006-12-29 18:50:00 · answer #7 · answered by AbBi ThE pErSoN u KnOw 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
try to double date im sure you have a best friend get him to set you up on a blind date or you can try to do thing to make you more confident try a new look or style but always be yourself good luck
2006-12-29 18:43:49 · answer #8 · answered by crystal m 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Drink a couple beers! Relax, dont try so hard. Talk for yours !
2006-12-29 18:44:45 · answer #9 · answered by Steve H. 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
write a letter to expression your feelings just chill no worries
2006-12-29 18:45:28 · answer #10 · answered by lily 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋