I am 15. It happened a few months ago and hope nothing like this ever happens to me again. My daddy had to go away for business in the middle east so I had to stay with another family - my friend and her parents. They are southern baptists and her mom didn't like me much in the first place. She thinks I have an attitude problem and dress suggestively. Anyways, one time I wanted to go out and she didn't like the way I was dressed, she said my jeans and top were both too tight. I guess I talked back and one thing led to another and well I was pretty disrespectful and swore at her. She slapped me across the face, dragged me into her room, got out one of her husband's belts, folded it up, and started spanking me, well more like whipping me, really really hard with it. I tried to resist but her husband came in and was like if I lay a hand on her, he'd deal with me himself. I was so frightened so I just took it and cried. I was very embarrassed. It hurt a lot, I checked afterwards and my butt was all scratched and swollen and I had welts and I could not sit comfortably for maybe like 2 or 3 days, it felt like I had a terrible sunburn. They yelled at me and made me cry and told me I was bad just really negative stuff. I was scared to death of them and am still very resentful. I tried calling the police when they went to the store but the police did not care and were very rude to me like I deserved it. No one deserves that.
They e-mailed my daddy and when he got home I got grounded for a long time for being disrespectful to them. No one took my side. Now her parents won't let me hang around with my friend outside of school and we are not even supposed to talk at school but we do anyways. I feel sorry for her that she lives in that kind of family because my daddy is not a hitter. Thank goodness I do not live in that type of family because I would have run away or would be on the streets or something. I don't know what I'll do next time my daddy goes away, he said he has to like 3 times a year from now on and I still have 2 more years of high school, he does not think I can stay alone without adult supervision and there aren't any relatives who can take care of me, I guess not until my older sister graduates from college.
2006-12-29 13:09:57
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answered by Lori 5
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My parents went out and left my brother home to watch me. I was about 7 or 8. When they came back home, he left with his girlfriend. A little later, mom came and started fussing at me for eating the Girl Scout cookies. I hadn't eaten them and told her I didnt' do it. She didn't believe me and started to get really mad because she thought I was lying. Finally, when I refused to "admit" that I ate them, she spanked me. I was devastated, more for being called a liar than the spanking, and went to bed crying. I cried in my room for quite a while and I guess the sound got on her nerves so she came in and spanked me some more. Obviously that didn't do much good in getting me to shut up because I was wailing when she gave up and left my room.
My brother came home that night and heard me crying in my room. He asked mom what happened, and she said I was sulking because I ate all the cookies and then got caught lying about it.
"Um Mom? I ate the cookies." I heard him tell her as they stood outside my door.
Boy did she feel horrible. I don't think I spoke to her for a few days afterwards either.
2006-12-29 10:37:27
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answered by Jadalina 5
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I can remember a time when I took a check from my parent's checkbook, forged their signature on it, and tried to cash it. When my parents found out(the bank called them), my dad went outside and picked a greenstick switch off of a tree. I can still remember the sting and the welts it left on the back of my legs.
2006-12-29 10:31:22
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answered by Anonymous
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I remember my father spanking me when I was 6 yrs old. He started off using a wooden spoon and ended up using his hands. He hit me so hard I wet my pants and soaked my pajamas. I had hand-shaped bruises on my behind and legs. I don't even remember what I did.
2006-12-29 10:15:27
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answered by L R 4
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My father whipping me with his belt for a city block every step I took when I was five because I stopped to talk to a friend on the way home from school. OR my father beating me up when I was 14, broke my nose fractured my cheek under my left eye and left me with nerve and muscle damage in my left eye...what was YOUR'S?
2006-12-29 10:14:41
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answered by Anonymous
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my worst spanking ever was when i was 6 I was told to go up and clean my room and my mom came to check my room and I had one corner of my sheet untucked and she took the mattress and whipped it at my head and it landed on top of me and she jumped on it with me underneath and then took it of dumped all my drawers and threw them at me the took my desk dumped everything out then threw me against the wall and beat me with a belt and told me the when she came back it better be all cleaned or it will be worse the next time. NICE MOM
2006-12-29 14:55:23
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answered by poohbear1978 3
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I don't know where to start, when a pice of bud flew away, or when the whole kitchen whent through it, pans, fryer, spoons, forks, When I was tide up on a pole facing down and got a stick with a nail on it. it is hard to remember.
2006-12-29 10:15:59
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answered by Engonos 4
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when i was spanked with a pizza paddle.when i did wrong but thank god i learned my lesson and never was spanked from a pizza paddle ever again.
2006-12-30 15:25:26
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answered by mamas_grandmasboy06 6
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I still have marks on my bottom from my worst spanking. It was with my dad's size 13 shoe. I will never allow anyone to put their hands on my children!
2006-12-29 10:14:42
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answered by Mimi 6
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Wow.
It is amazing to me that so many of those who answered this question were able to speak of their maltreatment so beautifully.
I feel terribly for all of you but I am glad many of you are breaking the cycle of violence. You should be really proud of yourselves.
2006-12-29 21:40:48
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answered by Me, Thrice-Baked 5
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