What do i do?

Question

OK I HAVE THIS FRIEND THAT LIKES A GUY NAMED TONY AND HE IS LIKE THAT HE LIKES HER ALSO BUT HAS TOLD THIS GIRL NAMED BIANCA TO WAIT FOR HIM IN CASE STUFF DONT WORK WITH MY FRIEND. I THINK HE IS JUST A PLAYER BUT MY FRIEND REALLY LIKES HIM AND SHE KNOWS THAT HE TOLD BIANCA THAT AND SHE STILL DOESNT LISTEN. WHAT SHOULD I DO SHES MY FRIEND AND DONT WANT HER TO GET HURT?

Answer 1

You are powerless. Wish for the best.

Answer 2

Tell your friend everything you think and all the advice you have. Tell her it is her choice to listen to you or not. Tell her if something bad happens or something doesn't work out, it's not your fault at all.

The guy is probably a player, and probably isn't a good guy, or the right guy for your friend. If your friend has any common sense, she will probably realize it after a while. You might not want to tell her any of your opinions about him, because she might get defensive, take his side, and you probably don't want to lose your friendship with her. So you might as well stay on the sidelines and watch, because this is something your friend really needs to figure out by herself.

Answer 3

A) Of course he's a player. No one else asks a girl to wait around "in case this doesn't work out". (The technical term for the girl in this situation is, idiot.)

B) You've already done what you can do. She's your friend, and you care...but the heart is not always open to rational advice. The best you can do now is probably plan to be around to be supportive when this all falls apart.

Answer 4

If she won't listen maybe you just have to let her find out herself but be ready to support her. Presumably she's not going out with anyone else whilst she's 'waiting' for Tony? Even if he goes out with her - he'll never respect her if she let's him get away with treating her like this. He's a player. She should play him at his own game and find someone else. She owes him nothing, who does he think he is?

Answer 5

So "As the World Turns" Tony decided he really wanted to be with Bill so II guess that leaves Your friend for you --and these are "The Day's Of OUR Lives "

Answer 6

I'm sorry hun, but this is something she'll have to eventually figure out the hard way. just be there for her when she's crying cuz your dumba$$ friend played her like you know he's going to. she'll eventually see that your right. but you can't make her see it now, she's got her own thoughts in mind.
I hope everything works out!
HAPPY NEW YEAR!

Answer 7

If he has a girl on a "waiting list" does't that say something? I wonder if he's use to short term relationships. If she really likes him she could give him a chance but if he doesn't act like he's that crazy about her than she should dump him before he dumps her.

Answer 8

you seem to be a really good freind to be worry about her getting hurt but if she doesn't won't to listen. Let her deal with it and what ever happens, happens but you have to think to your it not your fault it's hers for not listening to when what your trying to do is look at for her but if she does get hurt be there for her. But it's her life she decides who she goes out with oyur there to support her in the relationship.

Answer 9

he is a player if if she wont listen just leave her for a friend who will listen to what got to say

Answer 10

Both chicks will get played in the end so you can sit back and say I tld you so or find her someont better than him.

Answer 11

if ur friend really wanna give a shot. dont spend more time on worrying her, just prepare how to comfort her later when she really gets hurt.