If you see a girl out with a guy (outside of church), do you assume that she's not a virgin?

Question

I do, unless I hear otherwise. Tell me what you think.

I do, unless I hear otherwise. Not to be judgemental, of course. I am asking from the perspective of an atheist sociologist. What do you think?

Answer 1

Haha I dont know if believe there are many virgins left.. peer pressure and society has made it acceptable, and though people have strict morals, they tend to slip. Most people are scared to get into a relationship with no experience, or others just want to see what it feels like cos of all the hype. However, there are still virgins and I guess u can never really tell! I was a virgin guy till 26 and it used to upset me when people told me that was just impossible!!! But I was so innocent and had never even kissed someone! I guess u can just never know.. assumptions are something I am guilty of... and they cant be made unfortunately..!

Answer 2

I think that if you've ever gone anywhere with a female cousin or a sister, that you'd better hope there aren't very many people like you around.

To be honest, I think you're a small minded moron. People who generalize and stereotype are bad enough ... but to stereotype and generalize on such a flimsy basis, and in a way derogatory to females at that, just adds credence to the moron diagnosis.

Why don't you assume that every guy out with a girl isn't a virgin? I sense misogynist traits in you, little boy ... seek help.

Answer 3

No of course not! Males and females do all sorts of stuff together and it doesn't mean they're having sex. The guy could be her brother, cousin, uncle or next door neighbor, boss or who knows? Maybe they're just beginning a friendship.
That really is a narrow minded question to even think that there are people that might think that way. Of course perhaps in some parts of the world maybe they DO think like that. !!??

Answer 4

Just because a girl may date a guy does not mean that she is sleeping with them. People do go out and have other activities that they are involved in besides just church.

If people never went out and dated or got to know one another they would never end up getting married. Think about it.

Answer 5

What does being outside of church have to do with being a virgin. So if you see a girl at the mall with her brother you assume she not a virgin.
assume= makes an a s s of u + me

Answer 6

Don't be delusional. I've known plenty of women who went to church and are not virgins. I knew some people who had sex in the basement of the church with multiple partners. Don't think that if someone goes to church, they are all good Christians. Most of them are terrible, evil people who only go to church to be forgiven for the heinous things they do daily in their lives.

Answer 7

Why do you care? Do you also assume the same about a male member of your church? Is that okay? You think far to much about the sexual activities of others. What she does is her business. There are many men and women that do save themselves for marriage. They are still dating though and living a healthy life.

Answer 8

No. one thing that is universally known is to NEVER assume things that you have no proof of. For all you know the guy she was out with could be a family member or just a friend.

Answer 9

Don't even wonder if she's a virgin. It doesn't matter, it's none of your business as a stranger, and if she is or isn't doesn't make her better or less of a person. Get to know her if you like. If it comes up... maybe you'll find out. The better you know her the less it will matter.

Answer 10

No. You can not judge a book by its cover. If you really want to know become friends with her. REAL CLOSE FRIENDS. If you get 2 that point then when you do get in if it is hard to get in then she IS A VIRGIN, if it is all loose and sloppy with no walls then she is definitly NOT A VIRGIN...