I have only been seeing him for a month, and I am head over heals for him, he is moving to another state for a job and has asked me to go with him, am I crazy to go?
2006-12-29 09:40:39 · 20 answers · asked by marisol 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
you've only been seeing him a month....most people are still enjoying the newness of the relationship. If you are conservative, then I would wait a while before you move if you want to...if you are a risk taker and are spontaneious, then go for it! But this might have its consequences. Good luck with your decision.
2006-12-29 09:43:38 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I really don't think that the 2 of U really know each other well enough to move that fast but I know what it feels like to B head over heals so if you have the resources ( Like money to get back to where ever U live if things don't work out ) then do what your heart desires. The best advice I can give U is have a strong back up plan & B careful
2006-12-29 09:46:42 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't go. You'd be crazy to go. It is a very bad idea.
After only a month he's more of an acquaintance than a boyfriend. Think about what you are leaving behind if you go. Probably won't work out anyway. There are ways of keeping in touch.
2006-12-29 09:50:51 · answer #3 · answered by slobberknocker_usa 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
only go if you are self sufficient and you would have moved anyway. IF you are leaving family and freinds and must rely on him then definately not!
being self sufficient is the key so you dont need to rely on hm. However if you have a good career now, why leave it over a man? He can give up his job opportunity to stay with you or you can try to work it out long distance if you both feel it is worth it. it is too soon to move if you must depend on him.
2006-12-29 09:44:58 · answer #4 · answered by pepatong 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are not sacrificing much and it really doesn't matter, then go ahead. Even if you break up with him after a while, you may find new, different opportunities out there, so moving doesn't seem like a total waste after a while. But, if you are sacrificing everything you have to be with someone you are not even stable or settled down with it, then I would suggest thinking about it for a little longer.
2006-12-29 09:44:45 · answer #5 · answered by julia 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes you are crazy. Do it if your life is going to be just as good or better in the next state because once your relationship goes south, you're going to be all alone in a desolate place with no one to help you.
2006-12-29 09:45:48 · answer #6 · answered by Sax M 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO.. .
only for one month.. If your relationship is strong, im sure you will make it through the long distance. until you are both settled and ready for the next step. Think about it.. One month.. do u have any family in that other state, how well do u know him..
2006-12-29 09:44:24 · answer #7 · answered by tina 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Only if you are able to take care of yourself without him if life with him starts to go bad. Make sure you have your own money and a secret stash on the side.
2006-12-29 09:48:41 · answer #8 · answered by upchurs 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You really didn't give enough information. You may be crazy to go. How much do you have to give up to go with him? What type of commitment is he willing to make to you? If you go, and things don't work out, what do you have to fall back on? I suggest you proceed with caution.
2006-12-29 09:43:52 · answer #9 · answered by sassybree1979 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-16 22:20:19 · answer #10 · answered by michale 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋