We have been going out for 2 months and Its like I'm in heaven other times its like I'm in hell I don't wanna argue with her it's just I get jealous real easily like you have no idea she could glance at another guy for a second and I'll be like wtf.!? But the thing is when we argue we laugh after it...like while we're argueing but we're still mad at eachother I think we both don't wanna argue but we say mad for like 5 minutes and thats it we never argue about it again. The only problem is we argue about stupid things....I need some advice on what to do? I'm 14(aquarius) and shes 15(sagittarius) does that make any difference I'm just so confused right now we're fine but tomorrow who knows......?
2006-12-29 09:36:06 · 10 answers · asked by Nitsua 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
you are young. VERY young.
i think it is hard having such strong feelings.
you are right now are both at the age when you define who you are and start to learn about life and what you want and are capable of. arguing is part of that. because you feel very strongly about things and often times there is no middle ground.
here is what you should do.
TALK TO HER. figure out why you are fighting. figure out if it is worth continuing to fight with each other for each other.
but remember.... you are young. things shouldnt be that serious as highs and lows like heaven and hell. so slow down a bit.
2006-12-29 09:44:05 · answer #1 · answered by The MD 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to cool yourself down and not get so jealous or overprotective. If you are, chances are she's going to break up with you soon anyway, even if she's found another guy. So next time she's looking at a guy or hanging out with a guy, keep your cool. She will probably realize what you are doing for her, and know that you truly love her, and you are willing to change your habits because of that.
2006-12-29 17:38:59 · answer #2 · answered by julia 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you two have dated for 2 months and right now love is in the air, so of course when you two to fight 3 minutes later it will look like nothing happens... but you shouldn't be arguing a lot!! is not healthy for neither of you, and if you fight for tiny things, there most be something wrong so i think you should talk to each other and try to know each other..... about the jeaolusy thing... just think that you won't want her to be with you like you are with her... if she is with you, is because she wants to... and she appreciate you, so you dont have to worry about any guy looking at her... it will happen.
2006-12-29 17:46:36 · answer #3 · answered by Queen Alecita 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dump her and try dating again in 3 or 4 years. It doesn't sound like you're ready for a relationship and she probably isn't either.
2006-12-29 17:39:11 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you've just got to agree to disagree sometimes. everybody agrues but try to avoid one as much as possible and always remember that a wise person chooses their battles carefully so don't argue about petty issues or she's gonna just get tired and leave you. but if the issue is big and worth addressing then do talk to her about it.
2006-12-29 17:42:05 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are both young and she is testing the limits as are you.
this is a very tough time and you will either ride it out and be sole mates or bust up
she and you don't know yet how to deal with a true relationship.
2006-12-29 17:43:37 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
first of all... ..you guys are what..like freshman?? sophomores...it wont last ANYWAY but for the time being....she is young..so are you...she is going to look at other guys....just like ...dont deny it...you look at other girls....soo.... it doenst really matter...of all those guys she looks at..she is dating YOU...thats gotta mean SOMETING...and arguing about little things is normal...soo..dont worry about it...just have fun adn have a good time...be nice...and dont woory about wandering eyes...it'll be ok...i think ur worried for nothing
2006-12-29 17:40:10 · answer #7 · answered by lil miss agony 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girls like to argue. Drama Queens and all that. There is nothing you can do about it.
2006-12-29 17:38:51 · answer #8 · answered by trovanhawk 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is she pedophile?.
2006-12-29 17:38:22 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
both of you'll sound childish................
2006-12-29 17:42:22 · answer #10 · answered by lisa_08 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋