my mother and father wont let me date cause im in the 7th grade so i ask them why they say im to young is 7th grade to dating for me when should they let me date guysor give into double dating
2006-12-29 09:30:42 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
do it behind they're back that's what i did and when my mom found out she let me continue seeing him...............
2006-12-29 09:35:55 · answer #1 · answered by lisa_08 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Yes, 7th grade is too young. Of course, there's nothing wrong with having friends who are boys and going to the movies in groups or having the gang over for pizza or something. I don't think it's dating until he can drive and you're WAAAYYY to young to be going out with a 16-year-old.
Lisa_08: If you have to sneak behind your parents' backs, I'd question your boyfriend's respect for you.
2006-12-29 09:36:04 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
As long as you are mature enough for a relationship, you are ready. You need to be able to understand the fact that a boyfriend isn't necessary. Your parents are probably afraid that you will get so caught up that you will forget about school, grades, and all the important things in your life, and focus only on him. They are also probably afraid that a guy you date will be to controlling, impulsive, or abusive and will force you to do things. So tell them how you think that you are ready, and when they start letting you date, be sure to pick a guy that you know your parents would trust. (Not a punk rock dude who wears emo pants and cuts himself!)
2006-12-29 09:34:34 · answer #3 · answered by julia 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes honey, 7th grade is way too young. Its very hard for girls your age to resist the pressure that some boys might put on you. Not to mention your own budding hormones running you crazy. Your parents are there to protect you until you're old and wise enough to make good decisions on your own, and that takes time. You don't appreciate it now, but you will later. If they don't protect you now while you're young, you will hate them for it later.
Good luck!
2006-12-29 09:36:59 · answer #4 · answered by katme 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dating at age 16 usually and for double dating maybe when your 14 or 15
2006-12-29 09:33:52 · answer #5 · answered by Angel Virgo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are too young to be dating sweety, your parents are right. just enjoy being young you've got your whole life ahead of you to occupy your time with boys. Girls who start dating at your age end up heartbroken with babies, now do you want that. I don't think so. Your parents know a lot more than you think, and they have your best intrests at heart. they just don't want to see you hurt. So listen to them you might learn a thing or to along the way and, when you do grow up your gonna wish you'd have done what they said so you might as well do it now.
2006-12-29 09:38:06 · answer #6 · answered by kandi 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
im in 8th grade and so far ive been with about 4 guyz 3 in 7th n 1 in 8th. one was even older then me. double dating i say wait for that and i messed up personally because i think now that us kids shudnt date till were in 8th at least. thats me but i think your parentz are rite. dating not yet, hookupz maybe but dont tell ur parentz. if they ask if u have a crush itz up to u to decide if you want to tell them. hope it workz out for you :]
2006-12-29 09:36:43 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your parents are just thinking about your safety. Why are you in such a hurry to go out dating. You never know what may happen in dates specially if the guy is aggressive. Parents knows best !
2006-12-29 09:42:49 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
When they consider you are mature enough to start dating, don't be in such a hurry. We all experience some hurt and make bad dating choices, they're just trying to protect you from that until you're a little older.
2006-12-29 09:35:06 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
As long as they are supervised dates that is fine but not one on one dates. I have taken my daughter and her boyfriend to the movies and out to eat and I have let him come over to our house to watch a movie and hang out. It depends alot on your matuity and if your parents are ready for this. Give them time and show them you are growing up and be responsible and start helping around the house. Maybe you will be able to invite him over for dinner and a movie or games.
2006-12-29 09:47:59 · answer #10 · answered by beachladyjenn 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
omfg dating isnt that big of a deal!!! i mean, i dated in kindergarten. of course it wasnt a REAL boyfriend but it was still dating. cute little kid bf/gf like holding hands and all that. and im in 8th now and i turned out fine! i didnt have my 1st kiss till 7th grade, and my first REAL bf was in 8th so its just not a big deal, go 4 it!
2006-12-29 09:43:03 · answer #11 · answered by sexyg0pher770 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋