I recently found out that the reason I'm such a social anxiety freak and why I can't cope with girls is becuase when I was a yound boy in my first grades I-IV I was always beeing laugh at by girls. Later on in IV-VIII grades I also experienced stuff like that. I was a very young child and was very closed in myself. Now I feel fear and anxiety.
2006-12-29 09:28:30 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ Mental Health
omg---are you really wasting our time with your "so called trama" suck it up and become a man!!---Lots of people are teased as kids and laughed at. Your probelm is you are trying to make excuses for your actions. Get over it and grow some balls!--------I have been through a real trama----try being raped repeatedly by 3 guys and being beaten and left for dead-----when i read this question I thought I could be of some help to someone who really has a probelm---not somone who is making fun those peopel who has been through real trama-----you can think I am mean all you want----but you know i am right. come on----get a life!!
2006-12-29 14:24:48 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can go to a counselor that specializes in Post Traumatic Stress Disorder. They will E.M.D.R. which is a therapy that helps you to file traumatic memories in your brain so you don't have the anxiety and stress that is associated with the trauma. It is very rapid process and works wonders! It can be done for very cheap and also in some cases for free. Give it a shot. At least do some research on it. There is life after trauma.
2006-12-29 18:28:39 · answer #2 · answered by l'il mama 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
The root of anxiety and fear is that we keep facts within and dont share.
Next time before you talk to any girl, tell them frankly that you are feeling anxiety and fear within as you had this bad experience back in school and you are trying to cope with that ... and then go on to say whatever you wanted to talk ... I am sure you will not have anxiety and fear overpower you as you would have already killed it by sharing with the person whom you are facing ... It will work .. try it
I bet this will definately work but to follow it requires lot of courage as you need to openly discuss about your feeling with others which generouly people feel shy to do so ...
God bless you !!!!
2006-12-29 17:51:41 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
suck it up, fear will get you nowhere, breath easy and let the girls come to you
2006-12-29 17:31:46 · answer #4 · answered by tlw773 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋