The girl I love is about to leave her husband and I want her here with me......but ASAP....she wants to sort out some stuff first...I think she should take a chance, grab her stuff and come home to live with me......
2006-12-29 09:23:29 · 21 answers · asked by JackLove 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I'm sure that the reason she isn't running off to be with you now isn't because she doesn't love you, but because she wants to make sure that shes going to be able to manage. Maybe she doesn't have any income? She's going to need to be able to support herself, and that takes time to sort out. Also, there are lots of complications when leaving a marriage, she will need to time to get her things together, work out what she needs to take, talk to family about it. She might also need time to prepare for it mentally. Walking out on everything you know is scary, even if you are 100% sure that it is what you want. Maybe she is finding it hard to believe that you will really be there for her? She might think you are going to be like everyone else and let her down. Its hard to let go of your fears and insecurities.
I'm sure that she will be with you soon, but you've both got to be sensible and realistic.
2006-12-29 09:36:10 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 1⤋
Give her chance - leaving her husband is a big deal. You will never know or understand what a woman feels or thinks (you will probably never even try to) but she needs to get her head together before diving in with you or things could go horribly wrong between the two of you
2006-12-29 17:34:31 · answer #2 · answered by stacey 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if she is leaving her husband thats a big step. you also have to realise she is leaving behind a big part of her life, her feelings and her history. Give the girl the time she needs. Dont be so selfish and impatient. She's obviously coming to you anyway, so give her the time she needs to do this as comfortably and stress free as she can.
2006-12-29 19:42:41 · answer #3 · answered by cookie 85 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I say let her clear her head. I mean leaving a mate for someone else is a big deal. she needs time to think by herself. trust i know. i left a husband too. everything will work out in the end if its right.
2006-12-29 18:03:57 · answer #4 · answered by rachael l 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A jilted husband, if he thinks you had anything to do with it, is a good way to get the crap kicked out of you, or shot. Back off and let her sort things out.
2006-12-29 17:44:41 · answer #5 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
These things take time, its better off if she sorts everything out so then when you do run away together theres not gonna be money problems etc.
2006-12-29 17:26:00 · answer #6 · answered by ddzaszcxascs 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yew Would Do But Think how The husband Would feel And if that Happened to Yew If She Could Cheat On Her 1st Husband She Will deffinatly Cheat on Yew!
2006-12-29 17:25:58 · answer #7 · answered by SeXiE WeXiE tInEy wInEy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it's up to her......give her a little time to sort stuff out...this is a big step that she is taking...she needs to clear her head
2006-12-29 17:26:27 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you really want to be the rebound relationship???
I think you should let her get her head straight first, leaving your husband is not something she should have taken lightly.
2006-12-29 17:25:46 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, but let her sort out her stuff first.
2006-12-29 17:32:17 · answer #10 · answered by brian h 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋