what would you do?
what should i do?
i love him to death?
i broke up with hima nd told him i was completely done forever.
i feel so bad though. and
DO NOT give me
go sleep with another guy.
i dated him for almost a year and we slept together but i am still a virgin so none of that.
something to help me feel better.
and writing is no good. im not good and it seems not to help.
thanks.
points for the best/most helpful.
2006-12-29 09:23:14 · 8 answers · asked by Ashley 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I know I won't get best answer for this, but I'm the one that will tell to not be such a dumb girl. If you let people hurt you repeatedly you're just dumb, and no one will be able to help you. Your boyfriend obviously does'nt respect you probably because you don't have any dignity. Get some.
2006-12-29 09:29:24 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok, I merely went by a topic very resembling this. Boyfriend away for 2 weeks - kissed my ex, then pushed him away. I printed this question on right here and human beings suggested do not tell, yet very last evening, I did or perhaps as it change into troublesome and frightening, we are nevertheless mutually. i idea i might want to keep it from him yet I merely couldn't. i imagine honesty is the perfect coverage. even as human beings will allow you to do not ignore that it's going to easily make you experience extra effective and your boyfriend worse, in truth he has a good to understand. And once you're something like me, you'll keep wondering about it and feeling terrible. tell him.
2016-12-01 07:43:38 · answer #2 · answered by haltom 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sorry to hear that, but i would dump the loser u deserve so much better than that we all do in my opinion once a guy cheats on u the trust is gone the most important thing in a relationship is trust and honesty. i would dump him stop taking his calls change your number if u have to block him from Messenger services go out with friends and have a good time. maybe a trip to a day spa th try to make u feel a bit better about yourself.
gather all the memories from your relationship and burn them and try to get on with your life it wont be easy and it wont happen in a week but slowly u will start to feel better and go out more and one day u might just meet the guy who deserves your love
good luck i hope this helps
2006-12-29 09:34:08 · answer #3 · answered by chookys_ccw 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Paragraphs please.
I'd have ditched him for good after the 2nd time MAX...there would have been no 3rd time. Why are you so masochistic that you keep taking him back only to allow yourself to be hurt again?
When you get some self esteem and realize that being single is better than being with someone who disrespects you so, you'll move on...I hope.
2006-12-29 09:27:01 · answer #4 · answered by . 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he has cheated then he must not be that good of a boyfriend. Your feelings should be more important to you than his. He obviously doesn't feel committed to you if he keeps sleeping with others. Don't ever "love somebody to death" that can't respect you or care about your feelings you will end up hurt every time.
The keyword here is "boyfriend" not husband. Forget him and move on.
2006-12-29 09:32:03 · answer #5 · answered by Snow Bunny 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow, obviously he knows he is getting away with it cause he has been for two times before!!!! sorry, but you are a fool for taking him back, he is using you and only making you feel bad, why are you putting up with this, you are worth much more and much better than this guy here, and don't fall for the " i love you and i have to get it somewhere else cause you won't give it up yet" you stick to your morals and stay virgin. don't fall for the " you don't love me cause you won't sleep with me", if he truely loves you, he would respect you and wait and not sleep with other girls, he is a fool. good luck
2006-12-29 09:32:43 · answer #6 · answered by dutchcutie68 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This happened to me.
At first I forgave him, but we eventually broke up. We realized we were having problems that we could not resolve, and that he had deeper issues I couldn't help him with.
It took me a while, but I feel better now. All I did was talk to a close friend (not on-line) who had recently broken up with someone, and we helped each other to feel better.
2006-12-29 09:28:42 · answer #7 · answered by Iris 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know you won't feel like it for a while, but spend time with your friends, read good books, play music. spend time doing things you enjoy, that make you feel good. I wouldn't rush into dating someone else, just take some time for yourself.
Best of luck.
2006-12-29 09:31:30 · answer #8 · answered by Michelle S 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋