My dad doesnt know about my bf please help?

Question

I have a boyfriend and i REALLY like him we have been dating for a while now and i still haven't told my parents i have went on a date with him but secretly and when i get dropped off to school me and him leave and just roam our town and i really don't know what to do

Answer 1

If you have conversations with your parents, you can mention him casually as a friend or someone you think is neat. Build up to the point where dating would not be a shock unless there is something that you know is inappropriate about this relationship. If that is the case you are not hiding from your parents, you are hiding from your own good sense.

Answer 2

What kind of a guy expects you to skip school to be with him? When you live a lie, it will catch up. Someone will see you, tell your dad, and then things will be worse. Think it through. If this guy were really thinking about you, he wouldn't skip school with you. He's participating in your secrecy, and it's not going to turn out well if you continue. You need to stop sneaking off with him. There must be a reason that you're sneaking off with him. I believe it's because you know how your dad will react, right? Maybe you've been told that you're too young to date. There's a reason for that, you know. Your parents, even though you think they're older than dinosaur doo-doo, know what's best for you and are trying to keep you from making dumb mistakes...like sneaking off with a guy, and skip school together. It's not dating when you sneak off together. It's lying. How would you like it if your kid did that to you? By sneaking off with this guy, you're giving him permission to take you away from safety, where he'll get a little more demanding every time you go with him. You're putting yourself in what could be a dangerous situation. And for what? You're giving up your education to spend time with a guy who may not be a part of your future. You've only got so many years to get your education, which is free right now. You've got the rest of your life after that, to meet Mr. Right. If he were a decent guy, he'd want to date you the right way, not sneak off with you. And if you couldn't date, he would wait for you to be ready. You're worth waiting for, ya know. It's not worth your reputation to continue sneaking off with this guy. It would be better just to stop it, and wait until you know your dad would be comfortable with your dating. Yeah, I know how protective dad's can be, and that they often would rather keep you under lock & key. I've got a feeling he really loves you and is just trying to protect you from guys like this. <*)))><

Answer 3

well just tell them cause if they find out by a sibbling (if u have an older one) so just be honest to them and see if they under stand and if u keep roaming the town dont u think that the school would call and see where y r or do u go back to school my advice to u

Answer 4

Trust is the key word here, how do you expect your parents to trust you if you are ditching school. Why would they even want to accept him in your life if he is a bad example, if your boyfriend really cared about you why would he allow you skip school? What you are doing is very wrong and if I were your parent, I would be very disappointed in you! My advice to you is to STOP! Ditching school for this boy and listen, men will come on go in your life, you are very young so make your education a priority.

Answer 5

Be honest--to a point. Say you met a great guy and you're dating him. If they explode at you say in a really small voice that you didn't tell them cuz you were afraid that they'd get angry and then let the puppy eyes do the work. Unless you are from a true Asian family. Then it might not work so well...

Answer 6

Well, this all depends on how old are you. If you are like 12 or under then you should not even be dating. But if you are older maybe you should just try asking your boyfriend to help you move out of Iran and into sweet american freedom.
Depending on how old you are maybe it will be wise to keep it a secret from your parents. We all have secrets from our parents just like they have secrets from us, for example: did you know you are adopted? LOL

Answer 7

How old are you? Have your parents told you that you cannot date until a certain age? If not, then they should have no problem with it. And if they do, you can explain to them that they have not set any rules for you.

Also, being honest helps. But don't be rude about it because they'll be rude to you back. Try relating it to them so they know how it feels.

Answer 8

The best thing to do is be honest with your parents. The longer you keep it a secret the worse it's going to be when it comes out. If you want your parents to trust and respect you then you need to act like you deserve their trust and respect.

Answer 9

Tell them.

If you consider that they will not approve him you are right, you know your parents and probably there is a good reason for it.

Is he pushing you to keep it secret? Be really careful.

Is very important for the people that takes care of you to know who is with you and where you are.

TELL THEM... Think about it: if there is nothing wrong, what could happen?

Answer 10

How old are you? If you are under age you shouldn't otherwise let them know before they lost their trust in you.
You see, this is how usually problems starts, you have no supervision and one they running home crying that you are pregnant. trust me it's matter of time before you get in to the back seat of the car. DON'T let that happen. I'm a guy and we are master of car business!! TRUST ME PLEASE....Ive seen it happen many times over and over and..........