i know this question sounds stupid, but im shy!! I'm over eighteen so dont ask. im just shy and had a sheltered childhood.
how to flirt?????
1) w/ peeps you dont know
2)your guy friends who you want as more
3) just in genreal
Thanks!!
2006-12-29 08:37:52 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Lady, you do not have to flirt! Nature took care of that!
It does not happen that ANY woman walks by a male and he does not see her - Beautiful-ugly-Nice-Evil - he sees EVERYONE of them!
The exact same is true with the female! Nature made it that way!
You say you are shy? What you really mean is that you do not do anything creative!
Stop worrying about males seeing you, they do! I don't even know you and I already have male ideas about you! Nature made males that way!
Take music- flute, violin, oboe or clarinet. Take martial Arts, tennis, swimming, fencing, Chess,. Jazz ballet. Go to the theater, plays, concerts, ballet. Visit museums, take a baking class.
Never sell your virtue or compromise your integrity.
You do not have to dress naked to be seen! You command more respect with your clothes on!
Head up, shoulders straight, look everyone straight into the eye when talking to them.
Last, take you beautiful self into the woods. Find a large piece of mistletoe with lots of berries on it. Hang it on the back of your skirt, low enough so it touches the middle of your butt and tell every body it is Christmas!
2006-12-29 08:52:32 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well try to be cool and collective dont get in front of the guys you dont know and dont act all loose, and all in his face cause he'll want your digits but he'll think your a hoe too! And Smile a lot guys love girls who are possitve.Also if you have an apple of your eye and you know him slowly but shurely change the way you approach him instead of WHATS UP !!!!! how about Hi how have you doin...... Make jokes so it can flow more naturely(but only if youre good at it )if not make killer eye contact.
2006-12-29 16:48:20 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ummm.... I'm only 11 so let's see how I can help you.
1) With peeps you don't know, have a good sense of humor and be nice and play hard to get
2) Your guy friend who wants you as more, laugh with him, smile at him, play hard to get with him too.
3) and in general, be yourself. Just go with the flow and let life come at you. (And laugh a lot!)
2006-12-29 16:41:24 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Eyes.... For me anyways... I can get 75% good response to this(usually the friend comes over and asks).
Next would be me actually going over and coming up with something stupid to ask her in order to flirt around with.
I have a firend who I compete with sometimes that uses chram to it's prefection.
2006-12-29 16:42:05 · answer #4 · answered by Slapya 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
be yourself first of all... don't act fake or try and be someone your'e not...
1) eye contact is a big thing.... if you lock onto someone's eyes it's definitley an icebreaker.
2) put yourself out there more... suggest that you guys hang out alone sometimes to your guy friends and then dress cute....
3) give compliments, not typical one's like "your eyes are pretty" but something they might not hear as often
2006-12-29 16:43:02 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey just, smile more, look at them with a dirty kind of look, like if you are loving his eyes and smile, and you have the need to kiss them. Talk to them, be yourself, let go of yourself...
You'll be fine, some people are just not flirtacious, and they still get good dates... be yourself, just try to spice up a little bit the way you act.
2006-12-29 16:43:04 · answer #6 · answered by Latina Hottie! W.Chocolate 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
a huge turn on for me has alwasy been a girl that looks me in the eyes for a long time and then looks down at my llips.....thats how a girl tells you she wants to kiss you.
2006-12-29 16:41:14 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
flick /play with your hair
giggle (in a cute not annoyin way)
smile
bite your lower lip
and dont forget the mint!
2006-12-29 16:42:23 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
See my problem is how to get them to stop. All of my guy friends want us to be more.
2006-12-29 16:41:27 · answer #9 · answered by Nicoletta 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Smile
Look in the eyes
Be yourself - you don't want any guys who don't want you for who you are.
2006-12-29 16:39:04 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋