guys always want girls to put out but if we do u guys call us slutts u guys are confusing. im in HS and have a bf and we have been together for only to months and all day the guys c9me up to me and him and say "u guys bang yet?" then later they say "wow u guys haven't i would of already dumped her ***" but if i did all the guys would be like shes a slut ............why??? there so stupid i don't get it!
2006-12-29 08:37:47 · 15 answers · asked by brittany bear! 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It's called a double standard honey, and it's just the way it is (stupid but true). Men that have sex are kewl, women that have sex are trashy...
...however that is slowly changing and women are looked down upon much less nowadays than they once were, for exploring and enjoying their sexuality...
However if you are still in high school then you shouldn't be in any rush to have sex...there's plenty of time for that when you're ready for the responsibilities that go along with it...
2006-12-29 08:41:17 · answer #1 · answered by . 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
It's disgusting isn't it? Probably a number of the girls they're calling sluts haven't done it with anyone, but the guy they were with claimed she did so his friends would think he was cool.
Not all guys are like that though, and a lot of them will grow out if it. Just remember that the ones who are the most obnoxious are likely the virgins of the school, and the only banging they're doing is with their right hand. That's why they're so obsessed with everyone else's sex lives... they have none of their own. Ignore 'em.
2006-12-29 08:43:11 · answer #2 · answered by Jadalina 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not all girls put out. I have a girl your age and she is a proud virgin. You have your whole life to have sex and if you give it away now, then you really have nothing speacial saved for later. I mean think about this. You save yourself for marriage and when you have sex with the man you have chosen for life, HE is the best you ever had. What if you have sex with the man you marry and he is not as good as others you may have had sex with in the past? Save it for the one who wants you for who you are inside, not for the ones that just want to get inside. You know what I mean.
Stay true to yourself resect and let the other teens rage with there sexual problems they create for themselves.
Your a good girl and I am sure your mom is so proud.
Best of Luck, Another young Girls Mom
2006-12-29 08:44:54 · answer #3 · answered by Tracylyn S 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
That is how they are beyond HS too sad to say LOL well not all well good for you for not having sex before you are ready to and if a guy does dump you for that then he is the loser
2006-12-29 08:40:03 · answer #4 · answered by Angel Virgo 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Being a slut is a good thing. That's what we mean when we say that. The only other time we use it is when we are warning our buddies to double wrap their stuff.
Any guy that uses the term slut in bad context, other than for safety reasons, is most likely gay.
2006-12-29 08:45:54 · answer #5 · answered by #1 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋
OMG... how can you let them call you like that?!? you don't deserve that kind of treatment... when they say that just say, so what, I'm sure that if he wanted to dump me he would've already, and what we do or not do, is not of you bussines. Girl respect yourself, If someone said something like that infront of me, I would've slapped them...
Oh and I don't know why they act like that, they are too inmature... don't pay attention to their nonsence
2006-12-29 08:46:31 · answer #6 · answered by Latina Hottie! W.Chocolate 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
They are a bunch of immature bastards. They dot know the proper way to treat ladies. Stay away from those type.
2006-12-29 08:47:57 · answer #7 · answered by PCM 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I remember in High School, if I dated a guy, and thought that his mind was wandering to sex, and that he was expecting that from me, I ended the relationship quickly.
I kept my virginity, willingly, throughout high school. I lost my virginity to the man who is now my husband.
Don't let them pressure you into doing anything you do not want to do. Find yourself a guy who respects the fact that you respect yourself.
2006-12-29 08:40:42 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Boys in high school are terrified puppies looking for themselfs
2006-12-29 08:41:24 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
just keep it up girl, don't fall for that mindgame, you doing good there by saying no and not fall for every guy saying that. and never ever fall for, " if you don't you don't really love me" that is the meanest one they use, be strong and good luck. boys will be boys and that wont change anytime soon hhahaha
2006-12-29 08:41:19 · answer #10 · answered by dutchcutie68 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋