to tell u the truth, i want a gf but i don't know how to approach them without acting stupid. i want to be with those girls that u see on t.v. ( I mean pretty) but i don't noe how to approach them so how would a guy sweep you away or take your heart...
2006-12-29 08:36:57 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Just flash money dude.
2006-12-29 08:38:39 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
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2016-11-24 23:34:57 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Problem is - you are looking only on the surface yourself. Look deeper if you want something meaningful.
Looks do matter but looks don't lead to a lasting relationship.
Ask my sister --
She chooses guys based on 1. How they look 2. How Much money do the make 3. what kind of car they drive.
She has had 3 failed marriages, numerous flings, including extramarital ones and is miserable in nearly every relationship. And many of the men she chose beat her. She is beautiful, blonde, blue eyes, tan with ... ahem, excellent attributes. But a mud puddle in a parking lot in July in Texas is deeper.
I'm a red head, 5'8", fairly attractive. I love the way my husband looks but he isn't traditionally handsome. I have had 15 wonderful years with him and look to have another 40 or 50. I chose him for his heart and soul.
2006-12-29 08:41:39 · answer #3 · answered by Diana R 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The key to approach anyone is confidence, u should believe in yerself, be you and no one else.Dont care about what others think, and follow your heart. Dont judge a girl from her looks, desire her because you love her or at least yer amazed by her. And thats all that theres to it, dont ever be afraid, and dont ever thing yer any bit less then any other guy, u can have the girl u want as long as u belive it. good luck, be strong!
2006-12-29 08:41:51 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Trusting girls to answer this is where you lose. I've never seen a girl make a right decision in choosing a guy based on looks or act. They always fall for the nice dresses, sharp, polite, witty guy. To be that guy is usually an act bc guys know thats how they can pick up chicks. That kinda confidence always gets them. But once they start dating the guy the eventually find out all his crap and that the reality is that he is a messed up boy/loser with his own private personality qirks.
Keep this in mind. 99% of sociopathic serial killers are nice looking, well dressed, educated white males. And women are always their victims. This is because women want that Disney-like fantasy crap when it comes to men-and they belive it exists! Thats whay it is so easy for men who are keen to this to pick up chicks.
Secondly, keep in mind that it is a sociological observation that everyone puts forth their best effort when meeting someone-which essentially means that that person you meet is a lie. They lie and exagerate everything to impress you.
so my advice, to you, and to women is for you to act as natural as possible. If you are stupid when talking to girls then thats the real deal. I think there are girls out there who recognize and value realness, but they are very few-but why be with anything else?
And for girls, go out with the dorky guys. In the end you'll have the best, deepest relationship.
My girlfriend is a model and we are double edge swords. I founf out models aren't stupid and she founf out dorks can be fun.
Good luck!
2006-12-29 08:46:51 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
When a man goes out of his way for you. But not stupid. You need to be yourself. Dress nice, be clean, nails clean, clean shoes things like that.And about these girls on t.v. whats up with that.Mostly pretty girls have boyfriends that are not cute,but its the way that guy Carry's himself.You need to read ten stupid things men do to mess up their lives by Dr. Laura C. Schlessinger
2006-12-29 08:43:41 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
By being a real person, then it is charming, witty and full of life and many interest and finding out what I am interested in a nd showing an interest in learning about what I like todo.
2006-12-29 08:42:22 · answer #7 · answered by Gypsy Gal 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be a gentleman and use manners.
Women are attracted to men by their sense of self and intelligence.
Physical appearance nothwithstanding, you can stand out in a crowd by behaving differently/more gentlemanly than your peers.
2006-12-29 08:39:32 · answer #8 · answered by D N 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I like my man to pay attention to me and to make me feel as if I'm the most important person to him. I also like the alone time, for talking and snuggling. So if there is someone that you like fine out what they are interested in and follow through with that. If she likes to bowl ask if she'd like to go bowling, or to the movies.
2006-12-29 08:44:49 · answer #9 · answered by c_schreel 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
To be with the girls on tv you would have to....
hire a personal trainer like they do
hire a personal make-up consultant like they do
hire someone to do your hair everyday like they do
hire someone to create your own cologne for you like they do
get a personal tutor like they have
get an image consultant like they do
get someone to actually believe you have talent to put you on tv so you can make the money required to get all the above.
2006-12-29 08:40:57 · answer #10 · answered by janicajayne 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i would say be really nice, and a gentleman.
but i think the best way to go is if you just be yourself, cuz you cant really put on an act for someone, they wouldnt like you for who you really are.
im sure youre a nice guy.
if they dont seem to like you, then they really dont deserve you
find someone who could love you
ahahah i sound like dr phil, here
lmao
2006-12-29 08:41:56 · answer #11 · answered by llovesurmom 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋