This girl recently broke up with her boyfriend of 2 years, she wasn't happy. Then we shared some moments together. Talked about love, and that sort of thing, she expressed feelings for me, and made some life changing plans to be with me. Now she had a change of heart and went back to her boyfriend. What do I do? Do I fight for her?
2006-12-29 08:34:28 · 11 answers · asked by Belt Buckle 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Sorry bud...but no. Let her go. You were there to distract her from her feelings about her ex. She thought you were something new...something exciting and different. Once that wore off, she realized she missed her ex. She made life changing plans to be with you...but she's not. I made life changing plans to move to Key West, but I didn't. Doesn't get you anywhere. I'm sorry for your heartache. =(
2006-12-29 08:37:50 · answer #1 · answered by geminiqtpie22 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Unfortunately, you were the rebound fling. Get over it, but still remain friends with her. You never know. If they break up the next time. She may give you some. Seriously; move on. They had been together two years. As for fighting for her, why fight over something that was never yours in the first place. Remember, she chose him, over you.
2006-12-29 16:41:50 · answer #2 · answered by ricepat2000 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No , She is playing with your heart . She is not nor was she ever over that guy of 2 years. Go on with your life ! You need someone who loves and respect you ! Good Luck !
2006-12-29 16:40:44 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I look back at my 35 years, looking at the men who should have fought for me and didn't and I say, HELL YES! Fight for her!
It sounds like she may have drifted back because it was what she knew, it was comfy and a known evil.
Don't push so hard you lose her completely, but let her know you miss her and want her.
2006-12-29 16:37:57 · answer #4 · answered by Diana R 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There's nothing to fight for. She's made her choice. You were the rebound guy. Move on.
2006-12-29 16:35:55 · answer #5 · answered by janicajayne 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
There are a MILLION fish in the proverbial sea of life.
Give it up and move on - it happened for the best.
2006-12-29 16:36:16 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
No for it sounds like you were her rebound guy so move on and be with someone that can appreciate you for you
2006-12-29 16:36:14 · answer #7 · answered by Angel Virgo 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No you shouldn't fight for her. I think she was using you as her rebound. and then when she was done with you she went back for him. she used you.
2006-12-29 16:46:43 · answer #8 · answered by live, love, laugh often! 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She was never yours to begin with. Only in your mind
2006-12-29 16:37:59 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
let things be, she may come back on her own.
2006-12-29 16:49:55 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋