i think that i am in love with my bestfriend that i have known since 3rd grade. i have been with my boyfriend for about 4 mths. i would love to be with my bestfriend but i am scared that something happens things will get weird and we will not have the same friendship. puls idk how he feels about me. what should i do?
2006-12-29 08:30:33 · 9 answers · asked by lil duce 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Trust me I've been there and done that. We are no longer friends, his choise. It broke my heart. Soooo if you're willing to do that, go for it. But I kick myself everyday...... and it hurts, really bad!!!!!
2006-12-29 08:34:43 · answer #1 · answered by Lil Sexy Biker Chic 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask him. Yeah, I know, sounds simple, but it isn't. This is your best friend since 3rd grade. You've known each other for practically 3/4th of your lives(give or take a few years). My advise is to take a really deep breath and just start talking to him about how you feel. Yeah, he could go all,"oh wow, I can't do that because your my best friend". Or he could go "okay, lets give it a shot"!
2006-12-29 08:36:44 · answer #2 · answered by mangamaniaciam 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There are big risk here, you can lose a close friend. However in my opinion it is better to at least try than to live the rest of your life never knowing. One day you may be married with kids and you decide to act on these feeling it would not be fair to your family and husband.
Start hanging out more, subtle flirts to see how he responds. the situation will work itself out if you try.
2006-12-29 08:51:10 · answer #3 · answered by mario212100 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh my god this is a rough one. Its extremely hard to get involved intimately with someone you've been friends with for so long. Plus you do not want to ruin your friendship at all. What you have to do, is casually mention the situation to him, and ask him if hed be willing to go for it or not. You have to know if he'd be willing to risk the friendship as well. From there, you can make a decision on what to do.
2006-12-29 08:37:41 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you don't even love your boyfriend. Stop leading him on and break up with him. Dont' cheat that's not fair to him. After you do that then talk to you friend about how you feel and then you can move on from there
2006-12-29 08:34:17 · answer #5 · answered by blue_eyed_roo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't date your best friend...I've also done it and things were never the same..I don't know why things are just to weird now..It Sucks!
2006-12-29 08:43:33 · answer #6 · answered by djjjc11 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
WHAT EVER YOU DO, DON'T I MEAN DO NOT. EVEN THROUGH IT SEEMS LIKE A GOOD IDEA DONT DATE YOUR BEST FRIEND. TRUST ME I'VE DONE IT AND THINGS ARE STILL NOT THE SAME OVER 5 YRS LATER.
2006-12-29 08:41:16 · answer #7 · answered by teriwilburn 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should be honest with your boyfriend and with your heart.
2006-12-29 08:36:26 · answer #8 · answered by Bella 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
take a chance.
2006-12-29 09:06:10 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋