He (my boyfriend) wants to see pictures of my previous ex-bfs. He checks up on me through myspace. He acts like I'm going to break up with him over silly things. I feel like he's either insecure, jealous or doesn't trust me. It's starting to bug me. What can I do? or what should I say?
2006-12-29 08:21:47 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
for those who asked if I did something to cause insecurity...noooo I haven't...I compliment him and I have no interest or contact with my exes. And sex isn't involved in the equation (by choice on both sides) so that's not it either. And I'm not a high school drama like so many of these odd dating questions either.
2006-12-29 09:44:07 · update #1
It sounds like he has some serious insecurities which could lead to big problems. Help him talk about why he is so worried. Help him understand that his concerns are foolish, i.e., you're not going to leave him just 'cause you may meet someone on the street. Let him know you care and want your relationship to work. If things don't improve, suggest he seek counseling.
2006-12-29 08:29:50 · answer #1 · answered by JoeH 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why is he so insecured ? Have he caught you contacting your past BFs lately? I think he is not satisfied with you any more or he already got what he wanted from you and that is sex and wants to break up with you. He is just using jealousy as an excuse.
2006-12-29 08:31:48 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i have this problem 2. well mine doesn't wanna c pics of my ex coz i dont have any. but he always wants to go out with me when i go to town and cant bear me waering nice dresses or skirts in town unless he comes too. i love him but it creates a bit of resentment and i would also like some suggestions. sorry to poach your question. anyone?
2006-12-29 08:25:09 · answer #3 · answered by jiveybaby 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
re-evaluate your relationship with him. Did you do something and he has a lil right to be like that if not decide if he is worth it to keep and try and make it work if not break up and do you!!!
2006-12-29 08:53:48 · answer #4 · answered by princess 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well keep flirting with anyone at a minimum and show himthe pictures toshow yur not hiding anything!
2006-12-29 08:28:16 · answer #5 · answered by brittany bear! 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Run now. Run very fast. Don't let him catch you.
2006-12-29 08:24:55 · answer #6 · answered by Jeancommunicates 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask him if hes cheating on you he most likely is
2006-12-29 08:24:21 · answer #7 · answered by applejack80@sbcglobal.net 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋