okay when my girl and i were just friends we had a little play session between myself my best friend and one of her female friends... and i know you people know what im talkin about... anyways now my girl feels weird because of the fact that i did something with her girl and she did something with my boy that night... my question is; is this something my girl should trip over or should she let it go??? because she said she doesnt like to go around my boy knowing that she did something with him and that she is with me and she doesnt like when im with her at her girls house because she feels uncomfortable knowing that i had a session with her friend...
2006-12-29 08:06:08 · 12 answers · asked by Godson 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
That would freak me out too.. i wouldn't spend to much time together around them
2006-12-29 08:09:48 · answer #1 · answered by mami2nate 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
From what you are saying the activities that the two of you conducted were mutual. Since this is the case the two of you should just move forward. It is what it is. You can't take what happened back so if anything the two of you should just focus on each other and if being around those other parties is a problem, don't go around them so much.
2006-12-29 08:14:03 · answer #2 · answered by peaches m 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she needs to get over it, this happened in the past when you guys weren't together together, to me it sounds she is insecure about herself and the relationship and maybe is afraid you would want more of these events to happen. have a good talk about it, maybe even together with the other two. Not sure if you giving her vibes about maybe wanting this to happen again, maybe she feels you enjoyed it a lot more than she did and is afraid you want it again.
2006-12-29 08:12:32 · answer #3 · answered by dutchcutie68 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go on Jerry Springer and let Jerry sort it out for you. He's good at that kind of stuff.
2006-12-29 08:09:19 · answer #4 · answered by Joe Prosnick 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why would u guys do that in the first place that can totally make impact but the truth is she should just get over it
2006-12-29 08:09:58 · answer #5 · answered by brittany bear! 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be faithful & tell here the truth ,your feeling about her
2006-12-29 08:13:00 · answer #6 · answered by huda a 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk about it.. she shudnt b trippin cos u both did things OUTSIDE of the relationship. be cool
2006-12-29 08:11:59 · answer #7 · answered by StealthyX 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just keep talking, and telling her that you love her.
2006-12-29 08:08:02 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, if I were you, I wouldn't push it and I certainly would let it happen again...she is not happy about it....good luck
2006-12-29 08:09:32 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
We reap what we sow. It would be good that she is uncomfortable, why aren't you?
2006-12-29 08:10:59 · answer #10 · answered by Blue-rose 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋