My girl friend has been kind of ignoring me latley, she says she is too tired to do anything. She doesn't call me hardly at all anymore and when I call she doesn't want to talk very much, all she does is work 8 hours a day and sleep the rest of the time. I have this really weird feeling that something is going on that she wont tell me about. Should I worry?
2006-12-29 07:55:02 · 16 answers · asked by black_shadow084 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I wouldn't worry too much...if she was totally bored of you than she woul have dumped you already...shes still with you so i would take that as a good sign. Let her have time to herself before you jump back into to dating again. when you do, take her somewhere special, it will make her fell loved again.
2006-12-29 07:57:40 · answer #1 · answered by Social828 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If she is sleeping that much then she needs to see her doctor as she is obviously not well.
Or she is avoiding you probably because of a problem she has with the relationship.
Or she is lying awake at night with insomnia, worrying over problems & that is making her too tired for anything.
She could be depressed, does she seem down? is she listless?.
2006-12-29 15:59:55 · answer #2 · answered by madamspud 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The best thing you could do is try to get her to tell you what is bothering her. Maybe she is just stressed out from work. Maybe she is having family issues. You need to try to get her to open up to you. Communication is important in a relationship, but sometimes people can't open up. My boyfriend does the same thing to be when he is having an issue. It can have nothing to do with me but he would shut me out completely. He comes around when he's ready to talk and tells me what's bothering him.
2006-12-29 16:01:29 · answer #3 · answered by Princesa2dy4 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She may just have a lot of stuff on her mind. She may not have figured out what she is feeling yet or maybe she doesn't know how to talk about it yet.
I would say that you need to be as supportive as possible. Ask her questions and really listen to her answers.
2006-12-29 15:58:46 · answer #4 · answered by Mike J 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Something's going on. If she's not talking to you, she's angry about something and doesn't want to bring it up because you'd end up yelling at her instead of her yelling at you.
If you really want to hassle with it, corner her and make her talk about it. If you don't, you've probably lost a girlfriend.
Just remember: if you really want to know what's bothering her, be prepared. It's not going to be pretty, and you're going to have to be patient, persistent and honest to get the truth out of her.
2006-12-29 15:59:09 · answer #5 · answered by KD 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give her time and space and she'll talk to you when she is ready. I ignore hubby sometimes when I'm mad at him and I just need to take some time to think what to say to him sometimes. Sometimes Im worried he will be upset with me if I talk about what I'm upset about so I avoid telling him about it.
2006-12-29 15:58:35 · answer #6 · answered by trishay79 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She may be depressed, or just simply want some "me" time. It's perfectly normal to want your own space from time to time. Just come out and ask her if you have anything to be worried about.
2006-12-29 15:58:40 · answer #7 · answered by Bondgirl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She could be cheating in you or this could be the beginning of the end of your relationship. She could just be stalling till a better time to tell you that it is over.
2006-12-29 15:59:25 · answer #8 · answered by jonesty1284 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah you should, you two need to arrange a meeting to talk about it
or just break up, if you feel like you need to
if she isnt devastated, something was goin on
2006-12-29 15:57:29 · answer #9 · answered by Mr_wall2005 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
She might be losing interest in you you need to ask her what she really feels do it face to face where she can not refuse to answer!
2006-12-29 15:57:06 · answer #10 · answered by teacuptiff86042002 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋