ok. i have never made out before. and i think we are going to tomorrow. and well he has made out like 14 times.. and i have never really even had alot of kisses. i really dont want to suck at this and i dont want him to not like me just cuz i cant kiss. so what do you think i should do? like how do you not make out bad? do you have any tips to give me about how to make it wonderful?
2006-12-29 07:47:10 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I'm sure that you have told him that you've never made out before, but if you haven't, tell him. Most guys want to be first to teach girls things. Oh, and tell him to take it slow, because your new. And honey, just because he's made out before, doesn't mean he's good at it.
2006-12-29 07:53:04 · answer #1 · answered by Smittie 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
It's okay if he's made out and you haven't. If he really cares for you, he'll only focus on you and not compare you, it's not a competition anyway. I bet you'll do fine, kissing does come naturally. Although the only advice I can give, is just make sure your breath is fresh, chew gum or something, and don't eat anything garlicy tomorrow if your worried. You'll be fine though, and all the other people he made out with - doesn't matter. If you and him, in your relationship that matters, because that's what's going on. The rest of it, is done and over with, and if he lets his past make-out sessions affect anything, he has something wrong with him. But relax! It'll be fine, just go with the flow.
2006-12-29 07:55:34 · answer #2 · answered by ------ 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Don't worry about it. I know thats basically impossible, i remember my first make-out session...i had never even been kissed before. I was so scared, i know exactly how you feel.
Just remember...Kissing is about showing affection, its not a competition about whos good and who isnt.
Just have him kiss you to start with, and go with what he does. it sounds hard but its easy once your in the moment. Dont go to fast at first, he'll be able to tell your nervous.
Everybody in the world felt as nervous as you have once..If you tell him you've never made out with anybody, it might make it easier for you so he knows.
I hope i helped sweety. Enjoy yourself and your youth and take it one day at a time :)
(I SOUND LIKE AN OLD LADY LOL)
2006-12-29 08:03:58 · answer #3 · answered by savvizzle 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I easily have merely lately made out for the first time too and it got here fairly clearly except the only component my boyfriend suggested change into that i mandatory to apply extra tongue. wish it enables yet do not worry this is not that troublesome and the lads frequently take the lead besides so that you actually stick with alongside with him and also you''ll do wonderful.
2016-12-01 07:38:42 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tips
-when HE tries to kiss you, don't turn away from being scared
-don't think about it, because if you do, you will try to hard and make a fool of yourself
- just feel the kiss, you can't do it wrong if you just go with his flow
-kissings fun, don't let it stress you out
Hope this helps!! And Good Luck
2006-12-29 07:50:37 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
EVERYONE has to start somewhere. Before I met my boyfriend, now husband, I had only given a guy a peck on the lips before. That's it. He had made-out with MANY girls.
Don't stress over this. Follow what comes naturally and enjoy! The more you stress over it, the harder it will be for you to just enjoy making out.
Tips:
--Make sure your lips aren't dry
--Make sure your breath doesn't stink
2006-12-29 07:50:01 · answer #6 · answered by FaZizzle 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
No matter how many times he has madeout, he has not madeout with you. As you will discover, each person is different. When you start, just relax and see what feels good to you. If it feels good to you, it will feel good to him. If it feels bad to you, it probably feels bad to him as well. Just keep doing the things that feel the best.
2006-12-29 07:53:48 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I know this is scary and embarrassing but you should let him know this is your first time and want to take things slow...believe me I was scared the first time too but he took the lead and I just followed his lead...I put my arms around him or on his arm depending how you are when you are making out...just follow his lead...kissing the first time is awkward no matter what...just be gentle and don't forget to swallow your spit there is nothing more gross than having someone drown you in their spit...EWWWW
2006-12-29 07:53:29 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Don't stress about it so much... you'll be too nervous to enjoy it. Know your boundaries and how far you're willing to go... and let him know it before he steps over them.
As far as kissing, visit the following link for a few pointers:
2006-12-29 07:53:14 · answer #9 · answered by Jerry Hayes 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Kissing comes naturally. Don't worry. If your worried, you shouldnt be. Start out slow and dont get too intimate. Just do as he does. You'll be fine. I promise.
2006-12-29 07:49:53 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋