Barring any serious circumstances (e.g. sleeping with her best friend), can a woman's attitudes about a man change for the worse, if say for instance, you call her two times in one night, or you send her a text message that was overly sweet? Would that drive her way and cause her to throw away any good emotion she had about you in an instant? just curious. I seek the opinion of females, but dudes can feel free to chime in with their personal experiences. Thank you.
2006-12-29 07:46:32 · 14 answers · asked by Stymie 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You get the farthest by doing almost nothing out of the ordinary....meaning nothing their father or brother wouldn't do for them, i.e opening the door for them, hold the door for them, carrying heavy stuff for them, telling they look nice (maybe father and brother wouldn't do that). Do that crap for a while, and she'll do all that sweet crap first, opening the way for you.
Women can get weirded out at seemingly the strangest moments, over almost nothing. Depending on her age and experiences, you have to be careful not to remind her of someone else who creeped her out. Her flip-flopping like that could have had very little to do with you.
2006-12-29 07:54:35 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Smells like hormones from hell! When a woman is PMSing or pre-menopausal, her moods can change on a dime. Dont' try and figure her out, this is the curse of being female. The demons possess her and she can go from being a sweet and tender kitten, to an angry attacking wild tigress. Of course, do pay attention to anything you may have said or done that could've been the straw that broke the camel's back and pissed her off. Unfortunately, sometimes it's only a look you can give her or an omission of saying something thoughful and sweet. Good luck.
2006-12-29 07:53:53 · answer #2 · answered by Nose 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Yes. When a woman is trying to figure out what some guy means to her, doing the wrong things at the wrong time can definately scare her away. Don't get paranoid if this happened to you though. Just play it cool for awhile and see how she responds. Whatever you do, don't drop off the face of the planet just because you started to play you're cards wrong. This would leave her very confused.
2006-12-29 07:56:32 · answer #3 · answered by micha 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it could cause her to be a little turned off if the guy seems too needy or weak, but that can be countered if the guy isn't a real weakling. Women like to feel as though they are being pursued by a MAN, not a wimp. Don't be mean but don't be a push over.
2006-12-29 08:03:14 · answer #4 · answered by fedupwithu 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A sweet text or an extra phone call is a nice gesture, and unless the girl was not really into you in the first place, she shouldn't be driven away by one or both of these actions.
2006-12-29 07:50:39 · answer #5 · answered by danika1066 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Yes
2006-12-29 07:54:07 · answer #6 · answered by katmusic 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dude, first of all - you're being too clingy! All women like working for it. Second, women change their minds the way run-way models change ensambles backstage. It's inevitable. She probably changed her mind when you called her the first time.
2006-12-29 07:57:18 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It may SEEM like they have changed overnight, but in actuality it probably started months prior but the change was so small that neither one of you saw it happening.
2006-12-29 07:49:15 · answer #8 · answered by BAnne 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
doubtful,,usually we tot up circumstances and only bring up the problem when we have worked out what it is,,,it can be lots of different things and that last one was the straw that broke the camels back so to speak.
2006-12-29 07:53:04 · answer #9 · answered by lex 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes they can if a guy has been mean for 1 day a girls feelings can change over night
2006-12-29 07:50:04 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋