whats goin on in his brain???

Question

ok, so i went out with this guy for 6 weeks then he ended it cuz we were 'too different'. then we bumped into each other and started chatting, flirting and then decided to have only a physical thing since he doesn't wnat to be 'tied down'. but now i'm falling in love with him and i'm really not sure what he wants because we talk pretty much every single day. so if he doesn't want to be tied down then why does he keep calling or texing??? why cant he just be satisfied with the sex part?
god, can someone explain this to me please?

Answer 1

"Why buy the cow when you can get the milk free." Women are emotional creatures, which involves feelings. Men are visual creatures which only involves seeing something. You decided along with him that you two were 'too different' to have a full complete relationship. Which you went along with because he didn't want to be 'tied down'. BUT... you two are just the same when it comes to having a physical relationship. The reason he is calling you everyday; is because he is comfortable with you. Why? You don't bring any pressure to the relationship between you two. He has the perfect girl and the perfect relationship. A FRIEND, with benefits.

Answer 2

he probably likes you, enjoys talking to you and having sex with you but doesn't want to get "tied down" just in case another girl comes around who he might like more, and then leave you behind.
I think staying with him you are going to get your heart broken eventually because apparently he doesn't want be with you "officially" as a couple to keep his options opened.
Honestly, you should cut him off now before you fall deeper in love with him, it will only make things hard on you, if he does find someone "better" than you. Don't let him use you, like his own personal play thing.

Run!

Answer 3

Sex is not everything. You need to share care and concern to secure long lasting loving affair.