will you stay are go what is your opionion and will you trust?

Question

if a man are woman was married and tried to hook up with another person then seperates then relises mistake then they put it back toghether but the blind trust is no longer there so you start trusting again they then get on internet sites and hook up on the dating line for bordem you then fix again do you trust them completly do you leave and will you ever trust blindly agin mind you no physical activity happend

Answer 1

Trust is an issue that takes time to rebuild, so you have to ask yourself if you are willing to put in that time to see if the trust can be rebuilt. It sounds to me like it's an ongoing issue that isn't going to go away, and that maybe it's best to move on.

Answer 2

I don't think you need to trust someone blindly as you put it. Everyone has flaws but when they are harming another persons emotional being as much as cheating in any way does then it becomes an issue of whether both parties truly love each other enough to make it work. Sometimes it is better to break it off and find someone else to start fresh with.

To be honest no one really fully 100% trusts another person even if they are married. There is always a selfpreservating factor that holds back a little trust so that you can survive emotionally and psychologically if that person hurts you or fails you in some way. Everyone is human and therefore makes mistakes, but what your asking isn't about whether or not you should stay, but needs to be looked at as to whether or not your relationship can be a positive, healthy thing rather than being as damaging as it currently appears to be from your description. If you feel you can make it work than you need to make sure that your partner is commited, because it does take two people for this to happen.

Good Luck with your choices.