One of my friends told me the reason that guys don't want to date me is because at this age (teenage years) guys just think about sex and when guys look at me they think that I could be the mother of their children and it freaks them out. They (guys that I speak to) say that when they ask the boys that I like why they won't date me they say "She'll come later after all this crap." Is that a good thing or a bad thing?
2006-12-29 06:51:21 · 34 answers · asked by surani_ud 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Its a compliment...
It means that they think of you as someone they would want to have a serious relationship with and settle down with!!!
2006-12-29 06:55:58 · answer #1 · answered by Becca 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, it's a good thing that guys don't want to take advantage of you - because if given the chance, they all will and you will get "played". It's a bad thing because you don't get asked out alot. If you can hang on until they mature some, I think you will be alright. Don't feel insecure about it. It is what it is. Be glad they don't see you as the local "ho".
2006-12-29 06:56:11 · answer #2 · answered by Blitz 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A good thing.
Younger guys aren't thinking of settling down just now, yet they may see you as someone they'd like to marry one day. So yes, you might not like it, but that's their reasoning. It's hard for some guys to commit to a girl period, let alone, knowing that dating you would mean a lot more.
2006-12-29 06:58:26 · answer #3 · answered by Belix 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would say that it is a good thing b/c guys aren't looking at you as a one night stand type of thing. Your not a whore! Congratulations! But don't worry, some time you will meet the right guy.
2006-12-29 06:54:23 · answer #4 · answered by Candi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I hate to say it but it is a bad thing. Unless you are a christian then its a complement.
Seriously, you have to find the line between being your mom and being a sl*t. Neither one is good, but one needs to find a balance.
Improving your appearance and even smiling to guys every now and then would help.
Good luck
2006-12-29 06:55:46 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think its confusing lol. In general most ppl our age can't really find the other anyways until later on, I say you will find the right one in the future when everyone is generally more serious and not experimenting or playing around.
2006-12-29 06:54:12 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
its a good thing. unless u want to be used for sex??? but i don't see why you'd want that. Ill be the women at home that they go missing when Ur gone and the one that's on their mind all day instead of being the hoe they are getting sex from
2006-12-29 06:55:52 · answer #7 · answered by carebear_destroyer 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is a very good thing. That means that they would want to make something with you not just sleep with you and move on to the next girl the next night!
2006-12-29 06:54:25 · answer #8 · answered by lizzy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well it looks like guys think of you as mom material not girlfriend material. I dont know you but do you act your age. Maybe its the way you dress Idont know. Look im not trying to be mean really but it sounds like you act too mature.
2006-12-29 06:56:30 · answer #9 · answered by Spidy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like a good thing. You are the kind they want to bring home to Mama, not the ones they want to poke in the backseat of the car. The right one will come along for you. have patience!
2006-12-29 06:54:10 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋