ok me and my bf have been going out for about 2 1/2 weeks and we are crazy about each other well because we are both shy we dont really talk on the phone to each other when we do its kinda quiet for awhile so i just need some tips on what i should do so it wont be so quiet
2006-12-29 06:50:59 · 11 answers · asked by Brooke H 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
congrats on the new bf. Well, You can make a secret list of topics to talk about:
1. His pets (if he has any)
2. sports (if he is interested)
3. Making plans (to go to the mall??? or movies?)
4.How your team creamed his team in P.E.
5.How you love the present he got you for Christmas
6.His and your new year's resolutions
7. your plans for the weekend
....and so on....
Good Luck and i hoped I helped!
2006-12-29 06:56:42 · answer #1 · answered by Kat 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just talk about random things, when people are crazy about each other anything you talk about seems to be interesting. Just as questions like "How was your day?" "What did you do today?" and it can lead into longer conversations. I know my previous relationships i was shy as well, but when we were on the phone any random conversation was satisfying. Just talk about random things and trust me, the conversation will go on. (That is if he is interested as much as you are)
2006-12-29 14:59:05 · answer #2 · answered by cremedelacreme 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
At 2 1/2 weeks, there have to be 10,000 questions as yet unanswered.... right? In case your shyness precludes you from figuring out the questions to ask, there are books at Barnes and Noble filled with them. Get two copies - one for you and one for him.
2006-12-29 14:55:27 · answer #3 · answered by Ketel One Up 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you need to find out whether or not you have anything in common with each other. if talking on the phone is uncomfortable invite over to your house with parental permission and talk in person or watch a movie together
2006-12-29 15:20:02 · answer #4 · answered by ken s 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hmm..why not go out for a movie or have a nice picinic @ e park or the beach to know one another more?any common interest in both of u?if there is..jus tt interest to find a topic and talk to him ;)
2006-12-29 14:54:54 · answer #5 · answered by Desmond 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk about somebody else. When people talk about rumors it gets all the pressure off of themselves. Trust me it works.
2006-12-29 14:55:16 · answer #6 · answered by prodigy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that happened with me and my boyfriend now.
yesterday was our three month, and we're still crazy for eachother.
I dont know what we did, but our phone conversations
aren't so bland anymore.
just wait it out, or take someone else's advise.
haha.
2006-12-29 14:53:53 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
LEARN PUNCTUATION! This will help you to learn to take a breath and conversations will last longer!
2006-12-29 14:56:49 · answer #8 · answered by a_woman_with_a_brain 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask him if he wants to have a burping contest.
2006-12-29 14:55:47 · answer #9 · answered by mandeegail 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I HAD THAT SAME PROBLEM YOU JUST ASK HIM WHY YOU SO QUIET AND IF BE LIKE I DUNNO THEN YOU SAY YOU DUNNO WHY YOU SO QUIET DANG THAT'S CRAZY THAT WORKED WITH ME OR ASK HOW WAS HIS DAY AND JUST KEEP COMING WITH QUESTION
2006-12-29 14:55:35 · answer #10 · answered by Quintin D 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋