ive not out with anyone in a year now, at first i wasent bothered but now its annoying me, i liked this guy a month ago but he asked my friend out. Im not desprate its just that i want to find i guy thst i'll like
2006-12-29 06:50:47 · 18 answers · asked by sara 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
if you like beer and doughnuts, i'll take you out
2006-12-29 06:52:26 · answer #1 · answered by cereal killer 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I was always called a "nice" guy but then nice guys almost always finish last because we aren't aggressive. Try to find out what are the interests of a guy you like and try to be available. If he thinks that it was all chance (because you gave him all the chances) then he might fall for you. It's kinda hard though because for nice guys and nice gals, both of them don't want to make the first move unless they were introduced by a friend or met by "chance".
2006-12-29 14:54:49 · answer #2 · answered by romvsinparadise 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
next time you go ut with your friends
go with the state of mind that you are untouchable and no person there is worthy of you
this gives off an aura that attracts everyone
we always want want we cant have and for some strange reason we always try harder to get it
if you are giving off signals of come and get me or i need a guy, people can sense that through your body language and through the manner in which you speak and it turns off people
ever noticed that when you have a guy all the other guys seem interested? its true
so give it a go you have nothing to lose
2006-12-29 15:14:52 · answer #3 · answered by ploppy pants 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It has been my experience that `a guy that you will like` dosen`t come along when you are on the look-out ! Stop actively looking, go to all the places you usually go to ( and some that you don`t ) and for sure he will turn up. I know this sounds like a cop out, but they always arrive when you are least expecting them. Good Luck !
2006-12-29 14:56:45 · answer #4 · answered by Social Science Lady 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hmm...I think when your doing things you enjoy you're more likely to meet a guy you like ie if you joined a chess club or something -ok chess is just an example but if you're doing something you like you'll meet guys who have similar interests so thats an immediate ice breaker and you ve got some common ground. Maybe travelling is an option too, just to do something you like and then you're surer of what you'll like in a guy....hope that helps
2006-12-29 20:07:34 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go to the YMCA, the library, bowling, church or something you enjoy doing. So many girls think they're going to pick-up Mr. Right in a bar that it's rediculous!
If you meet a nice guy while you're doing something that you love, you'll already have something in common!
Good luck!
2006-12-29 14:54:11 · answer #6 · answered by kista_1 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, just wait till u find a guy u really like. U don't need a boyfriend to be happy.
2006-12-29 14:53:46 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I noticed that when you look for someone you'll never find the person you're looking for. It is only when you start enjoying life as a single person, randomly meeting and exchanging ideas with different and unique people that, when you least expect it, you'll find someone that you like.
2006-12-29 14:53:46 · answer #8 · answered by surani_ud 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
you wont necessarily 'find' him.
my boyfriend now, Ive known since I was 5 years old or
younger.
I didnt talk to him much til this past year.
before him, my love life was me liking 4 different guys, hook-ups, and everything, but that was just bad.
he'll come to you, dont worry.
just keep living life and you wont expect
whatever may come to you.
2006-12-29 14:57:55 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try a dating service. I know a lot of people who have and if anything, it helped with self esteem.
2006-12-29 14:56:18 · answer #10 · answered by katmusic 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Look at my face AM I BOTHERED
FACE, BOTHERED.
Get out there and try not to be such a nice girl, live and be a bit of a s**t enjoy life.
2006-12-29 15:39:05 · answer #11 · answered by david a 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋