i used to be friend and study partner with a girl and over some stupid stuff and final project things got so damn ugly and we decide not to even talk to eachother anymore ... we r sharing same friends and we gotta be in one class for the next 3 years ... i also used to have crush on her 6 months before we break it up ... i never told her and somehow got over it soon cuz i just want to be a classmate with her ... she was thinking otherwise like i'm really into her and i keep tryin hard so 1-2 months before the fight she stop handshakings and avoid any touches from me ... but she was acting normal in while we talked and chatting. problem is since the day we stop talking and cut off all the communications i feel like im in love with her and cant focus on dating others. so how should i help myself spending these years she never goes off my mind even for a second!!!! HELP ME PLEASE!!!!!
2006-12-29 06:44:18 · 6 answers · asked by Eric C 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It seems to me that you have really been into her since the beginning and so she could feel it, although you tried to hide it.
Besides, it seems that your stress due to her distance and not shaking hand has brought you into breaking up.
If you really feel that you are in love with her then you should go ahead and tell it to her.
She may be expecting it from you and have the same crash on you too.
You cant make sure unless you make a move.
dont expect her to make the move because she is the woman.
Good luck
2006-12-29 06:56:54 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-19 04:23:27 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Here's something that might help: When you start thinking about her, think about all the bad things about her. Does she have a weird laugh that irritates you? Does she treat other people badly? Does she do things that you find unethical or immoral? Does she smoke, drink or do drugs? Concentrate on the bad stuff about her and that will help change your mind about feeling like you're in love with her.
She doesn't sound like someone you should be with.
2006-12-29 06:51:41 · answer #3 · answered by Anna M 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't leave things like that. If you're sure with what you feel then go on. But if you only miss the fact she isn't talking to you maybe you miss her friendship only. So get it clear for yourself
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2006-12-29 06:52:28 · answer #4 · answered by milena_cub 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It almost sounds like obsession. We always want what we cant have. If you want her tell her how you feel it is the only way to find out if she feels the same.
2006-12-29 06:47:47 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dude... sac up and get over it. Or, you can turn Emo and write crappy songs about the whole experience.
2006-12-29 06:47:34 · answer #6 · answered by I hate friggin' crybabies 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋