well my boyfriend keeps nagging me to go on the pill or injection because he keeps saying that its better when you do it without a condom because pentration and pleasure is much more, because i have only ever done it with a condom i dont know anyway else, he says its very restricting for him would it be more pleasurable for me if i did go on the pill and did it without what does the difference feel like.. or does it only make a difference for the guy.. PLZZ HELP cant make a decision cause pill and things can do some weird things to girls hormones but if it gona be better maybe it worth it your advice could help thanks..
2006-12-29 06:43:58 · 20 answers · asked by sunshine 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
For a guy, it's much better without one.
2006-12-29 06:48:07 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
In my experience it is better for both the boy and girl without the condom. It just feels better skin to skin, also there is more friction without so more things hit where they are supposed to. You have to think about safety and other things besides feel when on the pill. It is not 100% just like everything else and using the pill won't keep you from catching stuff. I guess if you are confident both of you are healthy I would say get on the pill, and dump the condom.
2006-12-29 14:48:46 · answer #2 · answered by bkweeks2000 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do not take the injection. It can mess with you emotionally and physiologically. If your boyfriend really wants to go without condoms, ask him to help you pay for the pill IF you think can take it everyday without fail. There is a noticeable difference in how it feels with and without a condom for both guys and girls, but keep your safety in mind first.
2006-12-29 17:50:00 · answer #3 · answered by Anna M 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
personally, i prefer without. it just feels better, and you don't have to worry about not having a condom. you're right about the hormones with birth control, but it will only take a couple months before your body gets used to them. i've never had the injection, the pill is ok, but i prefer the patch to other birth control methods. also they now make some birth controls that have lower doses of hormones in them. you can discuss all the pros and cons of each method with a gynecologist, and they can help you figure out which one is best for you. just make sure that before you stop using condoms that you and your boyfriend are BOTH tested for stds.
2006-12-29 14:52:58 · answer #4 · answered by LoriBeth 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Better without. Condoms are a major turn off. Some are too small, some are too dry and to be honest it could break and that's it... whole different story
This is why I only have sex with girls I am on a define stable relationship with. There is more pleasure without a condom but I wouldnt just go screwing anything without one.
Good luck
2006-12-29 14:49:20 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
There are low hormone pills that are very safe and don't have really bad side affects. It is more reliable than condoms if you take them correctly but they will not protect you against STDs so if you haven't both been tested, you shouldn't do it without a condom. But yes, it will only make it feel better for him - it does not affect "penetration".
2006-12-29 14:50:34 · answer #6 · answered by Vexer D 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's way better for both without condoms. You should make sure this guy has no STD's before you do it though. Tell him you'll go on the pill if he gets tested... give and take. By the way, don't do the shot, it's bad news and makes you gain a ton of weight.
2006-12-29 14:48:40 · answer #7 · answered by laura 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It does feel better without a condom, but You must be on some type of birth control. And even though you are on the pill, it doesn't mean that it is 100% safe. But yes, it feels better.
2006-12-29 14:51:59 · answer #8 · answered by Candi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hello =)
From your perspective, I don't think there is any improvement to be noticed...
From his perspective, it would feel much better, however, he would likely not be able to perform as long, so you may end up not feeling as satisfied as you did with a condom.
Since this is the case, and you are more comfortable with him wearing a condom, stick with the condoms, in my opinion.
The difference of the experience would be solely from his perspective. I'm sure you can make it up to him in other ways.
Namaste, and Happy New Year,
--Tom
2006-12-29 14:50:03 · answer #9 · answered by glassnegman 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well it's not necessarily better without a condom, if he knows how to work it correctly. You can get just as much pleasure and penetration with a condom than without a condom. So Trust me...
2006-12-29 14:48:08 · answer #10 · answered by pinkeydots 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
True some girls do react to the pills, BUT it isn't as serious as you may think. ALWAYS for YOUR safety use a condom. If you think pills could have adverse reactions, try an AZT cocktail for HIV infection. They are usually Nausea, extreme vomiting(weeks between doses), weight loss, blurry vision, Diarrhea (bloody). Not to mention Neissieria Gonorrhea, Trichinosis, or even genital herpes. Please think about these options and educate yourself. But you should always use a condom.
2006-12-29 14:52:20 · answer #11 · answered by mumra_06 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋