Not wanting to jump the gun or anything as this is just a guy I was talking with a month or so ago on line. We had chatted for a week or so and talked about meeting and then I got a message that he was getting back with is girlfriend whom he appearantly was talking to at the same time he had a personals ad. I said ok and wished him luck and suggested he take off his ad which he did. Well now I got a message from him that it didn't work out and he is back online. I am reluctant to chat with him again because of the way he was trying to work things out with his ex at the same time. I just feel like I should n't just start chatting with him the minute he wants to chat with me again. It just makes me feel kinda used in a weird way the fact that he stopped chatting with me as soon as he got with his girlfriend and now wants to chat again since his luck didn't work out. He seems lilke a nice guy but he did waste a couple of my weeks concentrating on getting to know him.
2006-12-29 06:17:04 · 2 answers · asked by reallyfedup 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Don't talk to him again. In his mind, you're his rebound and you're right, he might be using you. If he just dropped his girlfriend like that don't you think he'd drop you too?
2006-12-29 06:23:12 · answer #1 · answered by yeah.whatever 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Probably steer clear of him. That type of complicated relationship is worse than not having a relationship. I didn't get married until I was 39, but I was lucky then, I married someone who's great. Good luck to you!
2006-12-29 20:40:58 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋