I want to crawl in a hole and stay there-update on previous problem?

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Ok look below this post to see my previous post so you can understand what i'm talking about and maybe try and help me.
Basically the post explained how he thought I was 15 and I was 14 and i needed to get the courage to tell him that I was really 14. Well I told him today and he called and he said that it was all cool and ok but he sounded upset and mad. Also, the first words out his mouth were, "What else haven't you told me?" I think he is ok though because he told me he loves me and that its all cool but he sounded so mad. I feel so bad and I really hope everything is ok between us. Can anyone give me advice on how to feel better about this or what I should say to him next?

Ok, this might be complicated but I hope someone can help me. Ok what happened is about 6 months ago I met a guy online. We started talking and became really really good friends. We talk on the phone every day for at least 2 hours. Also, we are able to share everything with each other. I don't think there is a thing we haven't talked about. Then, two and half months ago he asked me to be his girlfriend. I said yes and we have been dating since. Here comes the problem though. When we first met, I asked him how old he was, he said "I'm 15." Since we had only just met online I didn't expect us to talk for more then a week I replied "same." The truth is though that I am really a year younger. I truely have been meaning to tell him but it has slipped my mind and now I'm worried about telling him.I know we love eachother but I don't know how to tell him & wat his reaction will be. If anyone can offer advice on how to tell him and what you think his reaction will be please help.

Also, I know he has a good reason to be upset and I really think that if we get through this then it will be a big test in our relationship. I don't want to break up with him but I agree that if he can't accept it then we should break up.

Alright, thanks guys for the help. I talked to him and he's okay with everything. He understands and isn't mad.

Answer 1

Hey, it doesn't matter. If he really cares that you are 14 instead of 15 and can't get over it, dump his ***, find a new man and this time...don't start the relationship with a lie..that is no way to start anything..except a phone call with a former booty call you are trying to dodge!! :D

Answer 2

Things like this are why online relationships don't work - people telling stupid lies.

You made your bed, and now you can lie in it. Of course he's going to be mad that you lied to him about your age - frankly, you should have told him the truth a long time ago, and definitely before you got involved.

My advice to you is to have a serious talk about this with him and ask him how he feels about it. Figure out where you two are going to go from here. I have a feeling that your lie has impacted his trust in you, so you'll need to work on earning his trust back also.

Answer 3

The problem is when you lie about something, people tend to think that you've lied about other things as well. Just tell him the truth - that you didn't expect it to end up in dating, and that you'd probably only chat for a week or so. Have you lied about anything else?? If not, then just tell him the truth.

Answer 4

i don't see why you told him that you were 15 in the first place... and i don't see why you confessed that you were 14... its not like he was ever going to find out... if it ever came up you could have said "No i said i was 14" and just act dumb... always works for me when i lie... lol what you say now that you look like a horrible little liar is "Hey I'm sorry i lied to you in the beginning about my age... that's the only thing i fibbed about because i wanted you to like me.... and everything else has been the real me"

Answer 5

break up with him and dont lie like that or meet some one online again

Answer 6

ok well if he does really love you he wont care how old you are