My boyfriend likes it when he's bestfriend has sex with me. He wanted to have a 3 some with me and his frinend and we did. At first I felt weird and nervous because I had never done it. But then my boyfriend wanted me to have sex with his best friend alone and then I would have to tell him what happened the whole time. He gets turned on by all this. I think it's kinda strange. What should I do?
2006-12-29 06:07:41 · 20 answers · asked by shy girl 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Uhhh....dump him?
2006-12-29 06:09:43 · answer #1 · answered by dj 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, that is a bit out there, but I have heard of this before, so its not uncommon. Are you ok with it? It doesn't sound like you are to me? Did your BF do anything sexual with his best friend? I'm guessing he has at some point, but maybe not. If you're not ok with this, then tell him it bothers you Jackie and you want it to stop or else you will dump him. Feel free to email me.
2006-12-29 06:17:02 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Guys like to see their significant other with someone else, never will figure them guys out but I sure enjoy myself. It's like watching a porno live but he envisions you instead of some fake tit girl. he is wanting the action not being perverted. He is actually giving you a compliment that he thinks you are the best, the prettiest and he wants to show you off. Enjoy yourself and make it for him. The more you are turned on the more he is turned on and pleasing him is what girls want. We want to please our man. so he is asking a little wild side from you, give it to him.
2006-12-29 06:16:31 · answer #3 · answered by Karen A 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Your boyfriend might be in the closet. Sounds like he might want to have sex with his friend and you are a surrogate he is living through vicariously. if you don't want to do it, tell him so.
2006-12-29 06:11:04 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Jacki you obviously do not like what is happening to you, through your B/F. I personally feel that you are leting him take sexual advantage of you. If you do not feel comfotable with it then don't do it. Tell him to get his friend a prostitute that will let him watch, and describe. Get out girl he is exploiting you and turning you into something you are not.
2006-12-29 06:14:56 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take some pride in yourself dammit. How the hell could you let some dumbass treat you like a whore? I know thats harsh, but that is what he is making you. Get out while you still have some self respect and know that if he was in it for more than thrills he would never be cool with that.
2006-12-29 06:18:11 · answer #6 · answered by J D 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that's an alternate lifestyle... either embrace it, or it's going to cause problems in your relationship... if it's not something you think you can handle long term, then i'd suggest breaking it off now...
2006-12-29 06:14:54 · answer #7 · answered by Junior1544 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It is more common then we can believe. I have heard many stories. Most of the boyfriends want to watch, but he is probably thinking that would make it worse on you.
2006-12-29 06:10:57 · answer #8 · answered by kerry9477 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
have sex with your best friend (the hottie with the big breasts) and tell us about it.
EDIT: he doesn't love you he is just passing you around the circle then he will dump you and tell everyone what a slut you are.
2006-12-29 06:13:57 · answer #9 · answered by bluto blutarsky2 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
WTF!!
thats some freaky boyfreindddd..
well you know
some guuys get turned on by that stuff..
almost like looking at porn or something..
but plz
dont have sex with your boyfreinds bestfriend just because he wants you too..thats not what its abouttt
and it would be wrong if u did..
idk..just tell him what you think..
2006-12-29 06:12:14 · answer #10 · answered by Bell 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dump him. He is a sexual deviant who will continue to escalate his perversion until you get gang raped by a bunch of his friends or some other crap that will leave you severely injured, "just because it turns him on". Get out now!
2006-12-29 06:11:41 · answer #11 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋