i jsut want t ostay away. but when i work guys and men stare even when they are with their gf. and girls jsut hate me and i am use to it. but i have made a lot of wrong decsions and just want to wait for the right one instaed of misjudging them again.
2006-12-29 05:38:22 · 18 answers · asked by no longer caligirl. 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i menat stay away without changing. be serious for ones
2006-12-29 05:43:29 · update #1
so ignore the guys...and their girlfriends
go out with your friends and have a good time
catch up on your reading
and dont sit next to them at lunch, lol
you could also try looking frumpy, they wont stare then, lol
2006-12-29 05:42:09 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't control how people view you but you can control your behavior. You don't have to date, you don't have to have sex, you don't have to do anything with any man at any time. You can be your own person, focus on you and make some good girl friends who only want to see you for who you are. There are women out there who won't be catty and jealous just because you are pretty. If you bring honest friendship to the table then you have a lot to give. Don't focus on what you think others are thinking. Just be yourself and don't worry about anyone else.
Make some lesbian and gay friends.
2006-12-29 05:43:24 · answer #2 · answered by choice478 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are a good looking woman you can depennd on men staring at you forever. The same applies to men . Women are going to stasr at them if they consider them handsome.
It's natuure way of making us interested in each other.
At work just join the crowd in being friendly, but learn to let men know where you stand and never, never let them run ove ryou or sexually harrass you.
2006-12-29 05:42:15 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
So, what your saying is guys stare at you? Why would you want to change that? Let guys think what you want. Otherwise, you could always try wearing a sports bra and baggy clothes all day.
2006-12-29 05:40:57 · answer #4 · answered by Blountmonkey 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just because they stare at you doesn't mean you have to get with them! Let them stare away and you wait for the guy you want to be with.
2006-12-29 05:42:04 · answer #5 · answered by Vexer D 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If male attention bothers you so much, it implies your lack of confidence. Because of that, I wonder why men bother looking at you? Unconfident women are not attractive.
Hence, I don't believe your question. You full of it?
2006-12-29 05:44:56 · answer #6 · answered by automaticStabilizer 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stay away? Have you tried being obnoxious and dressing like an old lady? Seriously, get over YOUR problems before tackling the crap guys give you.
2006-12-29 05:41:52 · answer #7 · answered by Marc 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
by learning how to speellll then u will be able to read the sign for the male bathroom and that when u will stop going in there thinking its the females bathroom
2006-12-29 05:41:39 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
yeah if you are willing to go so far as to make yourself look unappealing, then try it
mess up your hair badly, smear make up
but that would mean people will call you other names...
use at own risk
2006-12-29 05:41:45 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if they look at you its called ignoring them or just make them want you. wehn guys stare at me i just wave bakk. lol and theyr girlfrends dont hate you they dont know u.
dont stay away from them. theyr addicting . good lukk.
2006-12-29 05:41:08 · answer #10 · answered by NikkiBabii 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋