Met this guy online. Never seen him b/f. been talking to him for 7 months. Back in Nov. we made plans to meet but he got a really bad cold. We planed to meet for new years. Ok he told me his grandmother passed two weeks ago and a few days after he told me his uncle has cancer and only had 6 mos. and a few days ago he told me a friend of his passed and he’s feeling to down to come....guys I don’t know, im finding it hard to believe. How could so much happen every time we try to get together? Don’t get me wrong, we have a VERY strong connection on the phone and emails...ect...I like this guy and I know he likes me I just don’t know what to think about this...what do you guys think?
2006-12-29 05:21:38 · 10 answers · asked by Bee 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
if he doesnt want to meet then he lied to you about something like his looks and he is afraid you might not like him same thing happened to me awiloe back and he lied about his looks i ended up liking him anyway give him an altemadum tell him last chanece to meet or tell him to pick the date and time
2006-12-29 05:27:03 · answer #1 · answered by carriebradshaw11 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk to him all you want
The guy is probably shy about meeting you.
Maybe he lied at the start of this and now cant face you. Could be that he is not quite the 6ft that he claimed,
might be an old man lying and saying he is 21 (or whatever)
Might have a ten speed instead of the HUMMER
who knows what it could be...
Continue to be his friend (lying like he does he obviously needs it)
date others
2006-12-29 13:25:53 · answer #2 · answered by lisa s 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'm a guy and that sounds pretty fishy to me. Being a guy I know how most of us operate. It sounds like he only enjoys talking to you but doesn't want to tell you because he's afraid of hurting your feelings. You don't need to stop talking, but I'd look for someone else if I was in your shoes.
2006-12-29 13:26:25 · answer #3 · answered by Joe P 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you shouldn/t because he could be dangerous. If you had connected strongly he would heave came down to see you or agreed by now, I say cancel the plans.
2006-12-29 13:26:47 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Let your bf decide when hes ready to meet u, best of luck....and happy new year
2006-12-29 13:26:31 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You dont have to stop talking to him but dont meet up with him. Bad idea!!!! TRUST ME!!!! My cousin is 13 years old and someone talked to her on here and tried to rape her.
2006-12-29 13:26:03 · answer #6 · answered by Shelby 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He is lying for sure. never believe him. these are just some excuse for convincing you.
2006-12-29 13:27:43 · answer #7 · answered by - 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
yes
2006-12-29 13:23:27 · answer #8 · answered by l 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
stop talking to him! who know what he'll do to you when you meet him!
2006-12-30 13:53:54 · answer #9 · answered by allthativegot21 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Lies! Let him go.
2006-12-29 13:24:57 · answer #10 · answered by B U Tiful 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋