i reli luved this boy and wen he sed he wasnt ready for a gf i was slightly ok wid it but then i started to miss him and luv him loads again, if i see some girl tlkin to him or anythin like that i go copletly shaky and i dnt feel strong, i loose my appetite and jus want him to loko at me or smthn, i dnt cry cus i cnt seem to cry ova it btu i do get jealous i jus want to get ova him, or even beta get him to like me again. plz help me.
2006-12-29 05:13:46 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
set him free from your mind i mean,dont think of him as much as possible. the more u think the more u get hurted.i will tell you my own experience i loved a gal she rejected initally then i chased her like a dog for 3 years atlast she accepted my love but it lasted for 4 months now shez married to another guy n living happly ....THE END...... if u want to experience the same then goahead.....start chasing him..best of luck
2006-12-29 23:00:21 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
seems like you want him more than he wants you. he has told you that he's not ready for a girlfriend...which could mean he's saying that he doesn't want to be with you.
I know this is hard, but you've got to keep your dignity and find someone else who is attracted to you. If you chase him around, you'll only seem desperate.
don't waste your time on him. just remember that boys are supposed to chase girls, so let him come after you and win you over. go take a two week vacation or something. most likely if he sees you again with another guy, he'll realize that he wants to be with you.
2006-12-29 14:11:23 · answer #2 · answered by Twinkle 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How are you calling him your ex? He told you right at the beginning that he was not ready for a girl friend remember. The whole affair was one sided and if you really be honest to yourself you will realise that more than anything it is your ego that is hurting (if I can’t have him, why should any other girl get him). I can assure you that as soon as some other guy show interest in you, you will forget all about him.
2006-12-29 06:03:06 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
To tell the truth its just infatuation. I have been through similar stage through. If you really love him you have to set him free. If he comes back he is yours and if he dont he was never yours.
To get over someone you are used to is very hard. I have not been able too. The best thing I can sugest is live with it.. after some time you will be used to that situation.
Pls. be sure that your actions should not harm him in anyways cause.. if you love him.. u wont want him to fall in trouble.. isn't t.... Good Luck!!
2006-12-29 06:12:30 · answer #4 · answered by Bindass Hyderabadi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Bless, this may well be a tough time for you. even inspite of the shown fact which you never did something with him, he stilled controlled to pull at your heart. the final difficulty to do to recover from him is attempt to stay away from him and take a check out to not be interior a similar places that he may well be in. that's once you may want to be including your acquaintances, you will desire to bypass out and occasion and notice that there are various advantageous human beings accessible. you're basically sixteen so think ofyou've have been given each and all of the time interior the worldwide to locate somebody who you think of is suited for you.
2016-10-19 04:17:37 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u can girlfriend just think positive,think about all the negative things he did that hurt u alot.and know u are special just as he is,and someone good will come and adore u as u adored him.be positive
2006-12-29 06:58:02 · answer #6 · answered by o 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find someone or thing to keep you doing something else not thinking of them all the time.
2006-12-29 05:18:00 · answer #7 · answered by Step 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am exactly at the position as you are and I have no idea..I guess if you try to find someone else to like you would feel better and start forgetting about it..Hope I helped! :)
2006-12-29 05:18:54 · answer #8 · answered by Elli 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
First of all he is not your "ex". You two never dated. He is obviously not interested in a relationship so don't waste your time with him.
2006-12-29 06:13:42 · answer #9 · answered by QnA 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't think about getting back with him, okay? It's over and it's time to move on. You can do this by getting a hobby, hanging out with friends/family, and most importantly, stop agonzining over what he's doing and who he's doing it with. He doesn't matter anymore, because he isn't your boyfriend anymore.
2006-12-29 05:18:15 · answer #10 · answered by Creampoof737 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋