look at another woman while his woman is standing there seeing him do this, and when i say looking i mean gawking to the point where the other woman sees him doing this and recognizes he his with his lady.
2006-12-29 05:12:03 · 47 answers · asked by eaglestraces123 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
OMG I cant tell you how annoying that is....I mean I dont mind him looking at other women of course theres a lot of pretty women out there and I cant keep him from seeing them...
I dont mind him looking as long as things dont go further than that then its okay...BUT it is really disrespectfully for a guy to be looking at other women when we are with them...
When we are with out man we like to feel like we are the only ones, like he only has eyes for ME....I like to feel special like Im the prettiest of them all....and for him to do that its just disrespectfull...
2006-12-29 05:17:08 · answer #1 · answered by shygrl52 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well it is disrespectful to the female yes but at the same time you should be flattered in a round about way cause he is going home with you so obviously he may think that the eye candy looks good but thats all it is .. when it comes right down to it not saying you are not eye candy and that but if he is looking and still going home with you then thats a good thing .
2006-12-29 05:16:14 · answer #2 · answered by cliff_aka_colt_4_5 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My husband does this and I have walked away to see if he was paying attention to me, it took him a while to notice I wasn't beside him anymore. I could have slugged him but when he came up to me he asked why I was over here and I told him to give him room to flirt since he was staring at the girl so long. He instantly went into defense mode and said he wasn't looking at anyone. I flat out said.. You want to stare at her - you don't get me. When ever we go out, my full attention is on him as it should be. No other guy is interesting to me enough to stare at him. I have what I want. He says the same thing. So why do you guys look if you have what you want? Now as we have been married for a years, I don't mind, unless it is a romantic dinner out and he would be focusing on other "people" instead of me. I understand glancing up once in awhile but to look at everyone that comes in or nearby. who cares, it's a restaurant and there is going to be people, duh, but your here with me buddy. Just tell him it bothers you and that if he must look and gawking over every woman then your not going to be with him.
2006-12-29 05:34:48 · answer #3 · answered by Karen A 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's wrong, very disrespectful and a direct hit in the face to the one he's seeing. I once had a friend who said that when she would go out with her parents, her father would stare at other women infront of her mother. It's bad on a boyfriend/girlfriend level, but even worse on a family level.
2006-12-30 10:10:43 · answer #4 · answered by Unknown 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is not looking. He is trying for a reaction - to get the woman to remember his attraction so that some other time they can take it farther.
I wouldn't call it disrespectful. I would call it damaging and unfaithful. But whats up with this "his woman" How much did you cost when he bought you?
2006-12-29 05:37:21 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Now, now, this is not so serious as it may seem. It's in a man's nature to admire beautiful women around him, although manners should usually prevail. You can view that as disrespectful. Now, what are you really doing yourself when you see a real handsome man in your environment, beside goggling? NO disrespect meant though, just facts of life.
2006-12-29 05:20:38 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's just a man...so what? We do the same thing all the time, we may do it a little more discretely but all in all we still look. As long as he isn't running after her, and he is with you??? Jealousy is not good in a relationship. Simple facts are this. If he cheats get rid of him...the end. Otherwise let him be a man...that is what they do and so do we.
2006-12-29 05:16:48 · answer #7 · answered by steelnpleasure 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Staring to the point where either you or the other woman feel awkward is certainly disrespectful to both women involved. To look at another person of either sex by either partner is pretty natural, whether your with your mate or not. But to stare is not cool.
2006-12-29 05:15:55 · answer #8 · answered by crazylegs 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
hmm, i don't see a real problem with a man checking out other woman, now gawking is a problem, and he has self control issues if he's gawking at other women with you right there...
he should be able to see, her, and see what she looks like without his jaw dropping...
how old is he? if he's a teenager, or even just less then 25 i could excuse it as him being immature... i am 26 and even without my girl being right with me, it'd take a hell of alot to make me gawk...
2006-12-29 05:15:56 · answer #9 · answered by Junior1544 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Yes, it's in the man's rulebook not to check out another woman while you're with yours. The only exception is if your lady points it out to you. Even then you are not to comment, only a nod and a sound in your throat.
2006-12-29 05:17:37 · answer #10 · answered by bardstale 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋