My stalker boyfriend just dumped me 2 weeks back athought we both seemed a little confused, he said he didn't feel the same about me anymore, days after him asking me to forgive him for being stupid( somedays he was ok with me others he wouldn't talk to me) I really care for this guy but he hurt me and re reading his texts just make me more confused he was so clingy in his texts and we haven't spoken for 2 weeks now, just don't understand how one minute he loves me the next this happens
2006-12-29 05:09:11 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Delete them!
When you look back to the past, things will always appear better than they actually were at the time. Don't dwell on the past. Move on!
2006-12-29 05:13:20 · answer #1 · answered by confused_kitty 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
He doesn't know what he wants, but wants keep you for back-up while he makes his mind up! He's not putting you first and respecting your feelings, which are two of the most important things for a loving relationship. He may love you but it's all about how he feels, and you deserve someone who will think of you. Delete his texts, keep out of his way for a bit and get on with your life. If he decides he wants to come back, he's got a lot of apologising to do.
2006-12-29 06:20:48 · answer #2 · answered by noisymilly 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Typically, you wouldn't be pushed away if you were truly cared about. Sorry to say but it does sound like in his distance he is checking out other options. I certainly cant tell you what to do but, I would definitely erase the texts, at least as a precaution(you get extra points for deleting his digits) Try to keep him out of your mind and if he comes back, you can decide if you want to give it one last chance. Just don't be surprised if he needs another "break" as soon as a cute girl walks by.
2006-12-29 05:21:06 · answer #3 · answered by Leah 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
It doesn't sound like he knows what he wants. He's been unfair to you, being clingy then arguing with you, and you don't deserve to be treated like that. Going back to him won't change things, he'll just do the same things all over again. These things happen. Delete the messages and find someone who deserves you.
2006-12-29 05:15:04 · answer #4 · answered by jammycaketin 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
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2016-04-27 23:07:24 · answer #5 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He has this yo-yo personality that survive on first bring you closer to them and then test your love by trying to repulse you and perhaps again try to win you back. If you don't want to be manipulated or abused emotionally, cut all communication with him and yes, delete his texts too. Some of their sentences can be very romantic and mentally manipulative. Don't fall for them.
2006-12-29 05:14:20 · answer #6 · answered by Smriti 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You are referring to him a your stalker boyfriend - that should answer your question, delete them and him out of your life and move on
2006-12-29 05:15:58 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2014-09-25 15:13:43 · answer #8 · answered by Marsha 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes Hunni delete them, he's messing about with your feelings so dont let him do it.. You deserve better, so go out and get you some fun and happiness... time to move on
2006-12-29 05:32:56 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
He sounds a bit confused. Delete the messages and move on.
2006-12-29 06:25:28 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋