what would u do if u see the one u love, love another and all the words and promises he told u , he tell the same to her and talk with her in the phone when u sit infront of him and he lives his life normally and u feel that ur heart is breaking every moment when u imagine that u is nothing to him,what do u think what can u do if u were in this status???
2006-12-29 05:02:34 · 14 answers · asked by ayouya l 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
1st. Its over. Until you accept that, you'll not be happy.
2nd. Get on with your life. IF he continues to be so important to you then you're the loser. Nobody likes a loser. except maybe othre losers.
3rd. I think if I were in that status, I'd try to be the best me I can be so that maybe he would have some regrets over the end of the relationship.
4th. "the one you love"? Don't you think that love is a two way thing? At least if its healthy. Re-read 1,2,& 3 above. And get healthy.
5th. Why would you want to have any feelings for such an insensitive jerk? Do you want people to enjoy hurting you? Maybe you need some professional help? If you felt good about yourself, you wouldn't think this is a good thing. Try to do better.
2006-12-29 05:14:16 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Here is what I would do, try to communicate with his 'other' and tell her that he is a lying peice of worm poop and he will do the same with her when he gets tired of her. Then leave him in the dirt, he doesnt deserve you and you should respect yourself enough to not let someone treat you that way. It hurts, but leave before he leaves you for some other younger version. And dont look back
2006-12-29 13:08:45 · answer #2 · answered by Dreamweaver 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well you know things happen for a reason, but also I mean if you really love him and as hard as it is for you should be glad that he is happy. I know that sounds wierd, but if you did truely love him then you should be happy that he is not in pain. You will get over it in time as hard as it feels now. You probably will move on and find someone else.
2006-12-29 13:08:15 · answer #3 · answered by Vthokie25 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its always hard to get over some1 u loved, especially if hes cheating on u, makes it harder! i believe that a new love always helps get over th old 1. im not saying its gonna be easy. of course u need sometime to be by urself n it wont happen right away n prob u will go through hard time. but thats what i believe..give it time to think n try meet new ppl.
2006-12-29 13:09:18 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
of course I'll leave him..although my heart will be broken if i had loved him, and i can't see him saying the same words he told me, to another one AND especially the word (i love you) this will kill me so I'll forget him because he is a big liar...
2006-12-29 13:17:39 · answer #5 · answered by remember m 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the fact that you're asking this question mean's you already know the answer. dump him. he obviously doesn't feel the same way you do. stop wasting your time. in time, you'll forget all about this guy - and meet someone worth your time, effort, and caring.
2006-12-29 13:07:24 · answer #6 · answered by spankypants 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Leave him and move on. No one deserves to be mistreated and miserable. You'll only be happy and respected if you require those around you to give you respect and leave them behind when they don't
2006-12-29 13:06:36 · answer #7 · answered by AK 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would probably chop off his left ball in his sleep...but other than that live him and go love another myself...
2006-12-29 13:05:16 · answer #8 · answered by jwaddles53 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
WHAT. Okay, "the one I love" would be in for a serious ***-WHOOPING. What the **** is that? Did I suddenly become invisible? CHRIST!
2006-12-29 13:08:09 · answer #9 · answered by Mad Scientist 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should move on and just forget about him.. if you keep on running after someone you love but doesnt love you back, then he/she is just using you
2006-12-29 13:05:51 · answer #10 · answered by Jon 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋