ok, here it goes. There's this wonderful guy that i really like. he seems to be a very sweet and brave guy. Unfortunatly, we don't know eachother and i can't find a way how to. You see, he's in a sort of religiuos group(even i)(museum). Today i went and found his house and i posted him some chocolates and a note(from a secret admirer) Do you think that he would like it? I guess that it's a beggining, right? But how can i get his attention? You see i'm shy and i want some practical things to do not a lot of those type of difficult things to do!! I will die if i won't get at least friends with him! I dream about him day and night. My supposed to be friend knows him very much and when they meet they joke and joke for hours. I'm a bit jealous, yousee. ( very bad thing i know....) I sometimes watch him staring at me and when i look he looks down as if embaressed-but never talked to me. I need some tips pls! S.O.S
2006-12-29 05:02:01 · 7 answers · asked by m.buffon 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
oh by t way he's about 3 years older than me
2006-12-29 05:05:16 · update #1
my friend will just laugh at me so it's impossilbe to have my friend introducing me to him!! :(
2006-12-29 05:09:07 · update #2
First - find out about the religious group. It might restrict who he would even be allowed to date. See if you might have an interest in what his beliefs are.
Second - you need to speak to him. Even if it is to comment that his shirt is nice, where did he get it because you are thinking your borther/dad/cousin might like one similar as a gift.
Third - He may be as shy as you with someone he cares about. Pull yourself together and force yourself to get past the shyness. What kind of freinds do you have that wont help you out with this anyway???? GOod luck- out yourself on the line - the worst that can happen is that he is not interested and you can move on.
2006-12-29 05:09:12 · answer #1 · answered by Codi 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dude! You shouldn't have done that, how would you feel if someome who you have no idea is likes you. You have never been met before, you can not just like someone you don't know. I did something like it last year, I gave this guy a letter, my best friend forced me too. He ripped it and gave it to my last crush so he could give it to me. It was embarrass. This is what you should do, the next time you see him, act like you have no idea what happened. Don't look at him, because he'll know.
Good luck
2006-12-29 13:16:01 · answer #2 · answered by DarkAngel T 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you want the guy youre gonna have to get brave enough to at least say hi, every time u see him, that will be the start. He'll definitely be wondering who sent the chocolates, and when he sees you speaking to him on a regular basis he'll eventually figure it out that youre the secret admirer
2006-12-29 13:07:35 · answer #3 · answered by rocky 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to get real and chill out. If he digs you, he'll let you know. You sound like you're bordering on stalking him.
If you have a friend that knows the guy well, have that friend introduce you to him. What's the big deal?
Life or death indeed...NO guy (or girl) is a life or death issue...
2006-12-29 13:06:28 · answer #4 · answered by . 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask your supposed to be friend to introduce him to you
2006-12-29 13:06:42 · answer #5 · answered by christina23 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am sure you will work it out.
Good luck
2006-12-29 13:05:26 · answer #6 · answered by lisa s 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yikes!
i just hope 'he' is not 'me'!
a tad creepy girl.......i suggest yoga.
2006-12-29 13:05:41 · answer #7 · answered by bjohnson808 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋