I want to! But i'm nervous of what he'll think!?

Question

I'm in 7th grade, and im boyfriend's in 8th. We kiss on the lips alot and I must say I love it. We talk online alot, and we both implied that we want to make out. I'm a christian and I know i'm to young to move onto sex. I shouldn't and don't want to. I know making out is a step before intercourse, but I know that we won't lead into that. So I was thinking, I never made out before, but i'm absolutely positive I want him to be my first. The only think im concerned about, is if I mess up while doing this, or something like that. I just don't want him to think im bad at it. Help me please.. and don't be hard on me about my age okay?

PEOPLE PEOPLE PEOPLE! i DONT wanna have sex! im telling you this! i just want to make out and idk what he will say if i make out wrong.. im just saying i DONT wanna lead into sex and im sure he don't wanna either!

Answer 1

if he goes in for a french and u want to, let him.

Answer 2

First off, you don't know what it will or will not lead too. The fact is that you severely underestimate what kind of bad decision you can make in the heat of the moment. Second, making out is very intimate and you would do well to not go there at this point in time. The truth is, you are too young to really know what you want, at this point you know what you feel like you want, there is a difference. if you are a Christian do the prudent thing, if you give the devil an inch, he will take a yard. You have plenty of time ahead of you and you will never regret having waited. However, there is an inexhaustible list of those who wish they had waited. Girl Girl Girl, you say you dont want to now but that can change in the heat of the moment, dont be so naive.

Answer 3

I respect the fact that you want to wait for sex. I think you should go for (making out) if you feel ready. If this guy is a nice guy even if you are not his first experience he will not make fun of you. Unfortunately people today think it is good to have experience. But, I can tell you you will have a much better relationship if you don't have people to compare your mate with. My husband and I have a wonderful relationship after eighteen years. I was my husbands first and he loves me to death. He would never cheat and cant imagine life without me. Things he tells me all the time. Unfortunately, I was not a virgin, I was raped when i was thirteen and rebelled against anything and everything. I was not with a lot of people but he was not my first. Anyhow I have always regretted my husband was not my first. Stand up for what you believe in and stick to your guns. (remain a virgin) It will be so worth it. As far as the making out you will get better with time. Trust me it will be fun learning together. Good luck.

Answer 4

Young lady, nature does not care about your intentions!

Nature made females so that life can continue! Over 70% of your body is made up to entice, bring and nourish life!

When the male sees the female, he does not have to think, his gets an erection! Her figure, walk, hair, lips every inch of her, screams at him! Nature made males that way!

So that he can penetrate her and she wants it, nature put beautiful feelings in the female hand. Do females let just any male hold her hands? The tip of those feelings goes to the lips and they can not kiss apart! Nature makes them ply their bodies into each other, she soft and he hard! The female sub comes to the male hardness and the male drowns in the softness of the female - Nature made it that way!

With the male buried in the softness of the female, the hardness of his erection, against her body, dissolves ALL defenses of the female, her nipples become erect and hard and only nakedness
will satisfy the hunger that engulfs both of them! Nature made it that way.

She will not stop until he has entered her, He will not stop until he has filled her with himself! Nature made humans that way!

And now, you want to tell the world, that your 8th grade self, is going to swim the sea of nature and not get wet? You will have it all under control?

This forum, like many others, is full of young girls/ladies/teenagers asking, can they be pregnant, are they pregnant, the boy has a new friend, how can I, what should I,
and on and on and on!

You will not mess THINGS up; you stand an extremely good chance of messing your life up. I know that you know that what you are thinking about doing is wrong! It is so wrong, that you will not talk this over with your parents, you chose to sneak behind their backs!

Answer 5

go ahead and kiss him. Its just a kiss you don't want to be in High School to get your first kiss. No big deal you could even make the first move. Don't have sex with a guy until you date him for a year and a half thats if you decide to while in Highschool after HS make it a year.

Answer 6

Just do what seems natural. 90 percent of "making out" is basic animal instinct. You may want to tell him before hand that you dont want to goto a certain point. So there is an ackward situation when you should be having fun. Just have fun. Its the best way to go

Answer 7

Be bad at it? That's what your worried about?! No problem, relax it's your first time. If your sure you want him to be your first then it will be great. You don't want to come off like an expert the first time he will think you've been lien to him. So be yourself have fun that's what it's about. Just let your boundaries be known before anything happens.


Good Luck!!!

Answer 8

be careful.... dont let him pressure you into anything. i'm in no position to yell at you about you age. im 17 and pregnant. but do be careful. make sure he knows where you stand about all this. you need to make you own decisions... dont let him or anyone on here. but do watch his hands, you can always say no. dont get into a situation where you feel uncomfortable.

Answer 9

i wont be hard on your age, but you ARE in 7th grade, and both of you are in jr. high. whether you like it or not, ur still kids. go ahead and make out with him as much as you want. makin' out is fun, i know with a lot of experience. but the whole sex thing is too much. losing your virginity at wat age 12 or 13...no, there are other things to do than sex, as hard as that is to comprehend for some ppl out there who are addicted to it, the world is larger than sexual connections with the nearest attractive person we see.

Answer 10

Very common question for a young lady your age. I think you need to start asking more questions from your friends/family etc etc. Find out and listen to what happened to them (If they are willing to share this with you). There are many bad things that can happen, though, so please be very carefull in whatever you decide.

Answer 11

we should be hard you and we're going to be hard you because you're just too young to be thinking about this stuff right now. have fun and date alot--you have plenty of time to think about this stuff--young boys just want to get their pee-pee wet for the first time and you little girls fall for it every time. Keep your pants on and wait for the right one. Years down the road.